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Old 12-26-2009, 01:29 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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The question becomes--is there any relationships where you would want to do this? Is there anyone you'd want to completely erase from your mind, from your life?

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Absolutely not. All my various relationships make me the person I am today. And I like who I am. Besides, some of the relationships that did not work out and the associated errors (including the embarrassing missteps) are really funny in hindsight.

I want to die laughing...
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Old 12-26-2009, 01:37 AM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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I won't ruin the entire movie for you, but here's a question based on it.

In this movie, there's a company called Lacuna, and what they can do is erase certain memories selectively. They can erase the memories of a certain person completely from your mind--if the procedure works well.

The question becomes--is there any relationships where you would want to do this? Is there anyone you'd want to completely erase from your mind, from your life?

I know, I know, what a topic for Christmas Day...but I had just seen the movie, and found the premise interesting.
Not relationships. But there are certain events that I would like to forget. Moments that still haunt me to this day. But my relationships have been good with happy memories, so I would not want to lose them.

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Old 12-26-2009, 01:40 AM
 
Location: somewhere close to Tampa, but closer to the beach
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You know...there was a time i would have welcomed having the memory of my most significant ex erased from my mind....because of all the pain that came along with our break up..but, truthfully, I would never want to erase this experience because of all that i was taught and shown through the experience...

Through it all, i learned more about myself and the level at which i have to truly share myself with someone through meeting her...

Without this, im fairly certain that everything would be much different...I know i would be...
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Old 12-26-2009, 05:47 AM
 
Location: Sunset Mountain
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I won't ruin the entire movie for you, but here's a question based on it.

In this movie, there's a company called Lacuna, and what they can do is erase certain memories selectively. They can erase the memories of a certain person completely from your mind--if the procedure works well.

The question becomes--is there any relationships where you would want to do this? Is there anyone you'd want to completely erase from your mind, from your life?

I know, I know, what a topic for Christmas Day...but I had just seen the movie, and found the premise interesting.
I loved that movie!

But to answer your question, I wouldn't erase anything, even the pain, suffering, and bad BAD times.

I believe everything happens for a reason, and there was a purpose, a lesson to learn, something that made me stronger or that contributed to who I am today b/c of those situations I had to live through.

Besides...there's always tequilla, that basically does the same thing as erasure!
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Old 12-26-2009, 08:07 AM
 
Location: right here!
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Yes. I would partake of this service. Not for a person exactly but for a dark time in my life. Kind of already have lost most of the memories of that time - well, I'm sure the memories are there but the retrieval process is gummed up. I saw that movie years ago and had the same thought then.
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