Telling a girl how you feel directly is a bad move?

[mongoslade223]

Originally Posted by Croye22

I'm just really bummed over this whole thing. I feel so down for what I did earlier. Would it sound desperate if I just called and talked to her though?

Awwwwww maan Croye you got it bad

It is apparent you have strong feelings for this girl. All I can give youis advice from my experience: been there done that. I know how you feel buddy

In the past, for me, most did not work out. Some did. The ones that did work out were when I finally learned to relax and not make it an all or nothing situation.

I know it's easy for me to say chill out, but believe me she is picking up desperate vibes from you. Women have a sixth sense for this kind of thing. Good luck to you and I hope you land your sweetie

[Croye22]

Thanks. I'm actually calming down some now and I plan to call her later on. I've had a lot of downs before, but mostly with the immature ones and all.

[Croye22]

Last question - should I call her and talk to her, or just let things cool down and wait until Saturday when I see her again?

[snuggler]

Originally Posted by wigirl920

A good balance of both.

I agree - BOTH. But, when in doubt I always think direct is best... leave no room for confusion.