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At various times in my life, my woman has snuggled up to me and whispered in my ear "What Are Your Fantasies?"
I know what they're hinting at. They want me to say something like "You of course, in a French Maid outfit", or "You and me rolling in the waves on a beach" or some such scenario. I usually chuckle, maybe stammer a little but put her off in some way without revealing anything.
I'm an honest person and just can't lie to her. My fantasies have nothing to do with her. Very few men fantasize about their SO's. What's the point? They're there all the time. You've seem then naked and in all positions. There's nothing to fantasize about.
Women, don't press the issue. We men have raunchy, even depraved fantasies we won't reveal to anyone. That's why we spend so much time with internet porn. You can find anything on the internet. Of course, that doesn't mean we don't love our SO's. We do. Just don't delve into our innermost fantasy world. Everyone will be much happier that way.
While I happen to agree with you, it works both ways. News Flash!!!...most women do not fantasize about their husband's either. So even if you MEN don't want to hear it....it's the truth!
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Does the word "tattle tale" mean anything to you?
Seriously, anyone who didn't already know this is fooling themselves. However, I'd be more interested in hearing about those who do fantasize about their partner. I know I do. I didn't say I do it all the time, but I do.
I think to have a fantasy is a natural healthy thing, I even encourage my hubby! I don't think I have ever met (not saying they are not out there roaming around) man or woman who do not fantasize, a lot of my male friends do the "I have the most beautiful girl in the world why would I need to think about (random hot chick)" Soon as gf is gone.......whole new story!
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I think to have a fantasy is a natural healthy thing, I even encourage my hubby! I don't think I have ever met (not saying they are not out there roaming around) man or woman who do not fantasize, a lot of my male friends do the "I have the most beautiful girl in the world why would I need to think about (random hot chick)" Soon as gf is gone.......whole new story!
But some men have learned it's not all about looks. One guy told me his best lovers were average looking, some, not attractive at all but had the biggest hearts and the funnest to be around. I have the feeling he's not your average male. He's a good looking man though.
I think it's relatively normal for everyone to have fantasies about someone else that isn't their SO. They don't always have to be full blown out scenarios, intricate details and all, but I refuse to believe anyone who denies ever having thought "hmm" about another person.
And girls definitley have their own fantasies too. . . and no, they don't contain french maid outfits or beaches and waves.
Hehehe -- you're so right. And guys: lots of times our fantasies don't even include YOU!
Happy New Year all -- I'm off to find my wizard...
I already know what my husband would say if I asked him about his fantasy. He'd say "My fantasy is that you (Twinkle Toes) would cook dinner for me once in a while," That's why I don't ask!!!
At various times in my life, my woman has snuggled up to me and whispered in my ear "What Are Your Fantasies?"
I know what they're hinting at. They want me to say something like "You of course, in a French Maid outfit", or "You and me rolling in the waves on a beach" or some such scenario. I usually chuckle, maybe stammer a little but put her off in some way without revealing anything.
I'm an honest person and just can't lie to her. My fantasies have nothing to do with her. Very few men fantasize about their SO's. What's the point? They're there all the time. You've seem then naked and in all positions. There's nothing to fantasize about.
Women, don't press the issue. We men have raunchy, even depraved fantasies we won't reveal to anyone. That's why we spend so much time with internet porn. You can find anything on the internet. Of course, that doesn't mean we don't love our SO's. We do. Just don't delve into our innermost fantasy world. Everyone will be much happier that way.
This is so very, very true! I'll let on a little bit, but not much. Her idea of fantasy is not mine.
When a woman is asking about your fantasies, she is asking, what kinky stuff can I do for you? Too bad you've missed out on answering the question.
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