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Old 01-01-2010, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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How do gay men decide who gives and who recieves? Is there usually a giver or a receiver or do you swap out? Also, if you are someone who is always one or another, how do you know if you not mismatched when you first meet a guy? Thanks for helping a straight gal understand!
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Well, I never even pondered this question, but now I am wondering, too...

I would think it's probably just like a straight couple...as you get to know each other you learn the sexual "style" of the other...and either it suits you, or you move on.
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:24 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I'm not a gay man, but I have gay friends and have had this conversation.

You're a woman; I'm a woman. You know how some of us will do everything, some of us only like a few things, some of us will do most things but NOT this or that ... ? Same with gay guys (lesbians too).
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I think its usually like the lesbians except you can have two girly girls together. They can also be butch and girly together. Never butch and butch together. And same as gay men..My cousin from tenn. is gay and he is the manly one..his um mangirlfriend is very girly. And not to be blunt but I think there is the pusher in sex and receiver getting it...kinda us like us straight folks.
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:28 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Is MissRiss sipping on the vino, cause this is kind of a weird question.

No offense, just noticing.
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:29 PM
 
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They probably ask each other "Are you a top, or a bottom?", and go from there.
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:38 PM
 
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Is MissRiss sipping on the vino, cause this is kind of a weird question.

No offense, just noticing.
I think the premise to the question came from another thread a bit ago. Either way, I have also wondered this same quesiton. (as gay as that sounds)
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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Is MissRiss sipping on the vino, cause this is kind of a weird question.

No offense, just noticing.
Haha, no. I've just always wondered about these things...I am a seeker of knowledge...
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:45 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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I think the premise to the question came from another thread a bit ago. Either way, I have also wondered this same quesiton. (as gay as that sounds)
You are right, it did!
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:47 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Who's pitching and who's catching.


Abbott and Costello come to mind here.
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