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YOUR CHILD COMES FIRST,you never put a man over your blood,your child!!if this man loves you so much,he will wiat for you!!!If not,to the hell with him!!ENOUGH FISH IN THE OCEAN!!!
Emigrating to a new country is not soo easy as you imagine!!You could make a big mistake!!You never lived with him together and you are ready to risk everything.
Not true at all? You've got to be kidding. You must be one of those people who believe fathers are disposable.
You believe this. I think more fathers should have custody especially of male children. Moms are more likely to keep visitation commitments and not play game. keywords: more likely.
Greetings,
If this relationship was from God - I dont believe there would be so much of " What do I do here"
it would all fall into place.
Have you checked in becoming a citizen and being able to work there? It is not as easy for us to go there and work as it is for them to come here.
I know KY very well and related to a good portion of it. I dont think it would be good at your kids age to uproot anything. They need both of there parents. From what I've seen the older the child gets, to move them, the more they struggle. And they will lash out.
I was told one time " When in dout do nothing" it will all work out. Canada being a safer place? I dont believe it is any different then here. I have cousins who left KY and moved to Canada, there having the same struggles there as we are here. Glad your heart is open to know you can have another relationship. I know there are some great men in KY and wonderful place to raise your kids.
I say stay in KY and take the job..................
BE Blessed
If you clicked on my name you would have that answer. I'm a grown woman who works with abused and neglected children and was raised (very well) by a single parent. Just becausae my thinking doesn't agree with yours you have no right to say I'm not right in my thinking. Have you ever seen the effects of living with unhappy parents on children? I have and it isn't pretty. Because the best relationship model they've seen is one with misery and unhappiness.
Children are much better off with happy parents...even if they are not together.
Oh please. Is mom unhappy? NO. She's disappointed her current romance isn't working out. And does happy HAVE to include a boyfriend? I'm just wondering why she wouldn't be unhappy when she's not done raising her kids. Oh yes, it's the proverbial 2nd spouse that most people will leave their kids behind for.
You believe this. I think more fathers should have custody especially of male children. Moms are more likely to keep visitation commitments and not play game. keywords: more likely.
No, it's not me, it's you. You seem to think it's not a big deal for a kid to be without a parent. Just because you were without one, doesn't mean it would be the same for all kids.
I wouldn't. If my child had a perfectly responsible father willing and able to care for him, why not? Parents are just as entitled to romance and happiness as everyone. Children are suppose enhance your life, not stop it. Life doesn't stop because you have children.
Just because this guy turned out not to be the right one doesn't mean she can't or won't find someoone else and she does not have a moral imperative to wait until her children are both grown to do that. Life is too short.
No, it's not me, it's you. You seem to think it's not a big deal for a kid to be without a parent. Just because you were without one, doesn't mean it would be the same for all kids.
Every child is different. It isn't the number of parents a child has that makes a difference but the quality of the parents. I know of children who grow up in two parent homes who are just messed up as kids who grow-up in single parent households.
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