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Old 01-04-2010, 12:33 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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"Spare the rod and spoil the wife?"
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Old 01-04-2010, 12:47 PM
 
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I haven't read the article yet......

If he's abusive and already assaulting her, it's bound to end badly if she doesn't leave and divorce him.

I know from experience and walked away from a marriage of more than 10 years. Once abusive...always abusive. It only escalates. Many woman though will try to hang in there...thinking it will get better...perhaps if I don't make him angry or make his favorite meal or become his slave.

Ladies...wake up!!! It will just keep getting worse. I know that it's difficult; I only wish that I didn't wait so long At least I fled before he hurt me worse. Some woman don't make it out with their lives!!! And don't worry about the "stuff" you have...it can be replaced = your life can't be.


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It was still assault and he obviously wasn't doing it playfully. The article also says that he kicked her. I'd leave and file for divorce if I were her. If he gets away with it this time, it may not be her rear end that gets spanked next time.
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Old 01-04-2010, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I think it's kinda cute aside from the welts.
Cute? Did you read the story? He threw her down and started kicking her. I wondered if this story was made light of by the word 'spank' and they should have replaced 'spank' with 'beat' or 'assualted' since it was assault and battery 'with a deadly weapon'.
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Old 01-04-2010, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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"Spare the rod and spoil the wife?"
Or, in his case, spare the foot and spoil the wife. Big man.
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Old 01-04-2010, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Tulsa
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Cute? Did you read the story? He threw her down and started kicking her. I wondered if this story was made light of by the word 'spank' and they should have replaced 'spank' with 'beat' or 'assualted' since it was assault and battery 'with a deadly weapon'.
I think that's the whole point of making light of this story. It's because it says he spanked her. If he had just hit her it wouldn't even be in the papers.
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Old 01-04-2010, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I think that's the whole point of making light of this story. It's because it says he spanked her. If he had just hit her it wouldn't even be in the papers.
Well it did say he was accused of spanking, not that he just claims to have spanked...
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Old 01-04-2010, 03:22 PM
 
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So you can spank and hit a child with a belt or hand but if you do it to an adult it is a horrible crime. Mmmmmkaaay. That makes no sense.
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Old 01-04-2010, 03:50 PM
 
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So you can spank and hit a child with a belt or hand but if you do it to an adult it is a horrible crime. Mmmmmkaaay. That makes no sense.
That's just what my thoughts on this were. I don't believe spanking is ever right on anyone. What he did deserves jail time. I don't see what's so funny about physical abuse? It seems hard that many people nowadays can't keep their hands to themselves. How hard can that be (unless you're stupid)?
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Old 01-04-2010, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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So you can spank and hit a child with a belt or hand but if you do it to an adult it is a horrible crime. Mmmmmkaaay. That makes no sense.
That's just it, it wasn't about just spanking. Read the story.
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Old 01-04-2010, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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BOSTON -- A Billerica man is accused of spanking his wife during an argument that stemmed over his alleged excessive viewing of pornography on the Internet.

Robert Noetzel, 47, pleaded not guilty to one count of assault and battery with a dangerous weapon on Monday, according to the Lowell Sun.

Husband Accused Of Spanking Wife - Boston News Story - WCVB Boston (http://www.thebostonchannel.com/news/22097746/detail.html - broken link)

Maybe he thought it was some kinky type of foreplay and the wife would like it
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