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Old 10-30-2009, 11:32 PM
 
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I don't understand how you can become attached to someone you knew "online" and have never spent time together in real life? Are you sure that you are hurt or maybe it is something else, like ego bruise. Yes, his behaviour is not acceptable. That is why it is wise to get your online r/ship off line as soon as possible, and see who is that person in real life.
I have been communicating online with a man who seemed perfect for me. Everything looked like online courtship, his behaviour was like:"I am in love with you, and I am jealous and possessive". I kept my cool, and asked him if he wanted to meet. Not yet.
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Old 10-31-2009, 12:05 AM
 
Location: NM
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<I have only read the OP so forgive me if I repeat something already asked>


Do you have sex with him when you visited him?

If so....

It seems he got what he wanted and he is off to another you. Just live and learn babe!
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Old 10-31-2009, 01:43 AM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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I met a man online in October last year. We talked online and eventually on the phone for awhile. He asked me to come and visit him, and I thought I was being smart by waiting 4-5 months before doing so. We talked everyday on the phone, I was always open and honest with him. He sent me a very nice Christmas gift and Valentines Day gift. So, I thought he felt the same for me as I did him. Well to make a long story short, I did go and visit him. And after I returned home, without any warning he just backed off. Never telling me anything. I have now learned that he had been talking to another woman for the past 3 months he was talking to me. I guess what hurts the most is the fact that I confided in him and he was the first man I cared about since my husband passed away 3 yrs ago. I feel he took advantage of that and ran with it. I am lucky that he didn't take more than my emotions. How can you tell if someone is really honest with you? I thought I knew, but obviously, I don't.
He would want to go out with you, have fun, chat... face to face, not through some electronic device where you can't see each others face. A player probably couldn't have you at his or your house more then a hand full of times without having sex, before he looses interest, and decides to go after easier pray.
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Old 01-12-2016, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Bingen,Wa.
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i text my man friend that's been playing me and i got a reply exactly 2 hrs later, what do i do next to play him?
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