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Originally Posted by swtpolly
I met a man online in October last year. We talked online and eventually on the phone for awhile. He asked me to come and visit him, and I thought I was being smart by waiting 4-5 months before doing so. We talked everyday on the phone, I was always open and honest with him. He sent me a very nice Christmas gift and Valentines Day gift. So, I thought he felt the same for me as I did him. Well to make a long story short, I did go and visit him. And after I returned home, without any warning he just backed off. Never telling me anything. I have now learned that he had been talking to another woman for the past 3 months he was talking to me. I guess what hurts the most is the fact that I confided in him and he was the first man I cared about since my husband passed away 3 yrs ago. I feel he took advantage of that and ran with it. I am lucky that he didn't take more than my emotions. How can you tell if someone is really honest with you? I thought I knew, but obviously, I don't.
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He would want to go out with you, have fun, chat... face to face, not through some electronic device where you can't see each others face. A player probably couldn't have you at his or your house more then a hand full of times
without having sex, before he looses interest, and decides to go after easier pray.