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Old 01-12-2016, 03:31 AM
 
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Basically, i often call younger women (in the age range between 18-25 or thereabouts) "girls" but is it wrong to regard women who are above the age of 18 and younger than 30, girls? Whenever a friend points out a woman, he'll usually say "that girl over there is hot!" and she may be 25 years old or a little older maybe. I don't think it would sound right if a friend or i were to say "that woman over there is hot" because the description of a woman, to me, is a female of 30 years of age and older.

Your thoughts? Do you describe a young woman as a "girl" or a "woman"
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Old 01-12-2016, 03:48 AM
 
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The distinction is in the eye/mind of the beholder. Everyone has different concepts of "a girl" and "a woman".
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Old 01-12-2016, 05:31 AM
 
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Technically, once a girl reaches legal adulthood you can call her a woman. In a formal setting such as a lecture, I call younger people "young men and young women" as a way of emphasizing their inherent worth as people.

Once a woman reaches her late 20's or early 30's she's usually matured to the point that you'd naturally consider her to be a woman.

In informal settings and among close friends, almost anything goes.
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Old 01-12-2016, 05:46 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Why over-complicate things when you can just say "she's" hot / gorgeous/ pretty/ cute. (shrugs)
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Old 01-12-2016, 05:52 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It really doesn't matter when you're talking amongst friends.

It only matters when you're addressing the girl/woman, and they'll let you know what to call them.
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Old 01-12-2016, 09:08 AM
 
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You can stop calling her a "girl" when she reaches the same age that you stop calling him a "boy."
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Old 01-12-2016, 09:09 AM
 
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You can stop calling her a "girl" when she reaches the same age that you stop calling him a "boy."
This.
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Old 01-12-2016, 09:10 AM
 
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Eighteen. That's what the law says and that's how the press refers to females age 18 or older. Calling a woman in her 20s a "girl" is sexist in its infantilizing.
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Old 01-12-2016, 09:14 AM
 
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I've heard college-age women called girls...I don't think usually after around that time-ish.
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Old 01-12-2016, 09:15 AM
 
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It used to be at the onset of menses.
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