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Some people are virgins by choice, others by lack of options or the will to do it.
I know what you mean though, culture is such that any person who isn't leaving a bar half naked is considered prude and boring.
While I do not wish I was a virgin or waited in any of my relationships, I have certainly had my share of regrets. In other words, it's a crapshoot, unless you really WANT to be a virgin.
Some people are just selective too. I was the last of practically everyone I knew to lose it and it was because I wanted it to be with a guy that I genuinely cared about and who cared about me. (Notice I didn't say loooove.) I never saw the point in sleeping with a guy just for the hell of it. Meaningless sex has never been and will never be my style.
Sierra, If I ever find myself in Arizona, we are going out, getting you a man and getting you laid. jk
You sound like a joke about an engineering student (or just about any geek)!
A pretty girl goes to his room in the dorm late at night, tries to get his attention, to distract him from his project... nothing! She says she's cold - he offers her a blanket... Finally she gets mad and tells him: I want a man, you, idiot! He says - What? Now I have to go find you a man at 2 in the morning?!
Some people are just selective too. I was the last of practically everyone I knew to lose it and it was because I wanted it to be with a guy that I genuinely cared about and who cared about me. (Notice I didn't say loooove.) I never saw the point in sleeping with a guy just for the hell of it. Meaningless sex has never been and will never be my style.
I was also one of the last to lose mine out of my friends, mainly because I was picky -and prude. I was one of the many who gave into the pressure, not by my friends, but by the girl I was dating.
It was meaningless, but it was great. So I can't say it was regretable.
The real sin is being a s-l-u-t and not being a virgin. Its amazing how decadent our culture has become that good is now viewed as evil and evil is good. I'm afraid to say its why this country is going to hell.
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