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Just noticing in society it seems its more socially acceptable to knock a Mans looks more then a women..
I always hear women talk about traits they dont find appealing in a Man even if a Mans in that room who shes describing wheter if it was the other way around it would not be accepted..
A few months ago my friends wife who im close with told me after i made out with her friend "great job shes way outta your league" i just laughed it off but it hurt a little
Had i said to a female in my circle of friends "hey great job that guys way outta your league" id either get slapped or shed run away crying and people would call me a monster
Ladies do you just assume guys really dont care what somebody says about their looks and thats why some of you dont always filter yourselves?
I don't know...all my jock friends always rag on me for not being tan. I am a female. I don't run crying.
Having mixed sex, people type settings IRL we have openly discussed both like that. Even with gay friends. I think that comment you got in paticular is just a strait up insult.
I don't filter myself because I don't lie to myself and others. There are many ways to be beautiful. Whats ugly to me is a reflection of lack of self care. I think everyone has something visually great about them and they should build around that. So many guys just don't and its a shame they plod around feeling bad with blinders on instead of doing something about it. I feel this way for females too.
I don't think guys don't care about what people say, but I do think they care more about people talking about what they do. I am more sensitive about that as I think males find self value more in that area.
Women generally have a lot of self value in looks because that is just the way the world spins round. No one gives a crap what you do if you look good doing it as a female.
Its more acceptable to "knock" men for everything!
Women who complain about how they are treated, usually don't think twice about returning the bile.
Modern advertising picked up on this, some years back, with what must be considerable success. Otherwise, they would have dropped this approach like a hot potato!
It seems to be that way to most people, but not to me. There's one thing about being honest with someone in a friendly sincere manner, it's another to be rude or/and harsh. Not enough people think before they speak, especially when passing judgements on someone.
I think it is. I have also received the "she's out of your league" comment in the past from so-called female friends/acquaintances. It was a bit hurtful in all honesty. I reckon society generally expects men to have thicker skin and take things on the chin.
2. Women's values may be seen to be mostly in their appearance (ie: sexuality) and so when you insult her looks, you're basically saying she's worthless.
However, I don't particularly think either of these true in my mental handbook. I can think of a few people though that would heartily agree with both.
Just noticing in society it seems its more socially acceptable to knock a Mans looks more then a women..
I always hear women talk about traits they dont find appealing in a Man even if a Mans in that room who shes describing wheter if it was the other way around it would not be accepted..
A few months ago my friends wife who im close with told me after i made out with her friend "great job shes way outta your league" i just laughed it off but it hurt a little
Had i said to a female in my circle of friends "hey great job that guys way outta your league" id either get slapped or shed run away crying and people would call me a monster
Ladies do you just assume guys really dont care what somebody says about their looks and thats why some of you dont always filter yourselves?
I try to be a pretty boy and it never happens?LOL....... They are attracted to me for my mind? Till you take the shirt off!LMAO............. JK.............. Rugged
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