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Well with that I can already see you haven't learned anything from this thread.
You are a single woman decrying your single state. At least for me I am a single man and they are other men in here trying to help you out.
What you don't get is that money, careers, things, that is all well and good. But at least from what I can tell you as a single man those things are not important to me. The other single men I know that are looking, those things are not important to them either(I have a wide variety of friends as well).
So yes you might have all those physical assets. Check, check, check. That's nice. But what do YOU offer as a PERSON that would interest me or other single men? If I dated you what would be appealing to me to want to spend time with you?
I thought similar to you when I was in my 20's. I thought oh, I had a cool job, I travel, I have a nice car, I have all this stuff why do I have a hard time with relationships?
Now I look back and realize that women didn't care about all that superficial stuff. They could obtain that themselves if they wanted. They wanted a mateship, friendship, a bond, and someone they would enjoy spending their time with.
After I figured that out the hard way, women came after me. They were naturally drawn to me cause I was an interesting, balanced, funny person to be around. I didn't have to go and chase after them, they came to me.
I have a lot to offer as a person. I am not boring, I am fun to be around, i am kind. It's not like I am mean, miserable, boring, rotten person...
She's wondering why guys don't like her. I simply stated that Jewish women can come across as arrogant and condescending. Apparently quite a few people don't think this is retarded talk as I have been repped several times for my comments.
thats like saying i dont date black people because i think they'll steal my tv.
She's wondering why guys don't like her. I simply stated that Jewish women can come across as arrogant and condescending. Apparently quite a few people don't think this is retarded talk as I have been repped several times for my comment.
Guys LIKE me. They just wont COMMIT to me- BIG difference.
Well then show it. So far I have mostly heard about superficial crap and having a christmas list of what you want in a man.
Be that interesting, fun and kind gal and you will attract good men.
I attract lots of men...just not the men that I want. Men that would probably be fine for some women...but, I really don't want some uneducated fat guy...and I don't think that's shallow or superficial. I take care of myself...why shouldn't my partner do so as well?
Guys LIKE me. They just wont COMMIT to me- BIG difference.
Then maybe they "like" you as opposed to like you. Or it could be you are expecting to much in a large metropolitan area from guys your age. Why commit when you can live it up in NYC and hop from bed to bed?
You say you do get noticed and you do get asked out.
However, it doesn't seem to last for more than a date or two.
Am I correct?
If I am, what is happening on these initial dates?
basically i go out with them...3 or 4 dates later they imply that they want to sleep with me...i tell them i am not interested in that and they bail. I do not dress or act provacatively in any way shape or form.
basically i go out with them...3 or 4 dates later they imply that they want to sleep with me...i tell them i am not interested in that and they bail. I do not dress or act provacatively in any way shape or form.
You are not interested in sex? Or is it that they want sex sooner than you do?
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