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Old 01-30-2010, 05:11 AM
 
Location: Forest Hills, NY
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I think we will see a significant rise in the American lesbian population if our women continue in this direction. Think of it as a form of population control - which wouldn't hurt us.
I'm all for population control, it might help keep real estate and tuition down if there are less people creating a demand. Personally, I'm more a fan of natural selection as a form of population control.
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Old 01-30-2010, 08:10 AM
 
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So what gives?

I'm a 28 year old female, successful @ my job, college-educated, I've owned my home for about 2 years now, I'm a hard-worker, I do volunteer work, I'm nice, I'm smart, I'm funny, I work out and have a great body, I'm very attractive, I don't do drugs or smoke and I drink rarely, I have a clean record in terms of never being arrested ot anything like that, I have a great social life...and yet i can't find someone who wants to date me.

I'm not perfect I know that...but where in my self-description is something that someone would find unattractive about wanting to date me?

I have worked hard and accomplished so much, but I find myself never good enough for any man.

Sorry...I don't really get it. Do men just want to date and marry bitchy ditzy bimbos with no money?

From the post it sounds like your arrogant and too self absorbed
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Old 01-30-2010, 12:25 PM
 
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Default A Little Honesty ....... And Leave the Money Out Of It

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...Do men just want to date and marry bitchy ditzy bimbos with no money?



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Yes Although I think most men would prefer a bitchy ditzy bimbo with money.
Since most men just assume that they going to end up with a "bitchy ditzy bimbo", no matter how many degrees she has, they are more likely to be attracted to women who are honest about it.

As far as the money goes, any man worth knowing, will be intelligent enough to realize that once he signs up, the money is no longer his and likely never will be!
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Old 01-30-2010, 12:27 PM
 
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I've read these forums long enough to see some patterns. The type of man you are looking for is not the type of man that makes a good long term companion. Here's what women don't understand about men: "confidence" is inversely proportional to respect.
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Old 01-30-2010, 12:51 PM
 
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I've read these forums long enough to see some patterns. The type of man you are looking for is not the type of man that makes a good long term companion. Here's what women don't understand about men: "confidence" is inversely proportional to respect.
I like that. Of course, this isn't real confidence they are talking about.

There is something about a man who has the looks and money required to be able to put women on the defensive, that they love. They know they will need to compete to keep him and will be embarrassed if they fail. Other women want him, so they will be envious.

Men who have such confidence either have it made or have an incurable STD.

I think the OP is either overstating her position in the dating hierarchy or really doesn't have the time to pursue a good relationship. When I was putting in my 70 hour weeks in my 20s, I completely put off thoughts of marriage until I could make my situation better. Of course, once you get into your 30s, good prospects become rare. Its the shame of modern life that our best are often put at such a disadvantage.
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Old 01-30-2010, 08:05 PM
 
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So what gives?

I'm a 28 year old female, successful @ my job, college-educated, I've owned my home for about 2 years now, I'm a hard-worker, I do volunteer work, I'm nice, I'm smart, I'm funny, I work out and have a great body, I'm very attractive, I don't do drugs or smoke and I drink rarely, I have a clean record in terms of never being arrested ot anything like that, I have a great social life...and yet i can't find someone who wants to date me.

I'm not perfect I know that...but where in my self-description is something that someone would find unattractive about wanting to date me?

I have worked hard and accomplished so much, but I find myself never good enough for any man.

Sorry...I don't really get it. Do men just want to date and marry bitchy ditzy bimbos with no money?
Where is your profile photo?

I'd be interested to see what you look like.
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Old 01-30-2010, 08:08 PM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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