Does anyone get turned on by the thought of having an affair? (partner, relations)
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I would say the fantasy is better than the reality....like bank robbing! Would it be fun to rob a bank and spend the loot.....sure. Would it be fun to pick up a 25 year old...sure but the reality is it rarely works out as planned!
Most people underestimate the damage it does and the mental issues it causes (guilt, the future lying to cover up the deed, etc). This far outweighs the hot sex!
Obviously my girlfriend has thought about it. Otherwise she would not have to remind me several times a week when I am watching ESPN that if the host of Around the Horn, Tony Reali, ever comes through town then I better be worried.
Fantasies are just that, fantasies. I think its ok to have the thought of what its like to be with someone else, but not to act on it. I see women all the time that I find very attractive, and occasionally I think about how it would be fun to roll around in the hay a little bit. But that's as far as it goes.
Without spouting a lot of philosophy, I can say that I have seen enough infidelity in marriage with parents and friends to last me a lifetime. I have as my wife, the greatest person to ever enter my life. I long for nothing else.
Does anyone get turned on by the thought of having an affair?
(For all the ppl who are married for 3+ yrs)
Do you ever wonder what another person would be like- or get excited to date someone new? HONESTLY!
We're married, not dead. I'm about as monogamous as they get. But, sure, I can look at another woman and think about what it would be like. Thinking isn't the same thing as acting.
This says just as much bad about you than it does about those women.
All's fair in love and war.
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Does anyone get turned on by the thought of having an affair?
