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I placed a profile on a dating website back in October 2009. I met a guy online and we chatted for a long time. Like over 4-5 hours of instant messaging. We really hit it off and he was funny and nice. He stated we could be friends and that we would catch up again later on in the week. I think I sent him a message a while later after that but it kinda just ended there. Fast forward to now. I had closed that account back in November 2009 and since I was bored last night, I created a new one. I ended up running into his profile again and decided to send him a message, I did not mention that we had spoken before. We hit it off again, however this time, he asked me out for a meet and greet. We met last night and really hit it off in person and exchanged contact info. Of course, the question is at some point in time, should I mention that we had previously chatted online? He clearly doesn't remember and I do remember back then that he stated he was really busy with work.
No, I wouldn't mention it. It might come across as very odd to him that you kind of kept it a secret, and now are bringing it up. What's the point? Just so that he knows you already talked about XYZ? I know it may feel strange to you, but trust me, it will be even weirder if you say something.
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