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Old 01-11-2010, 06:40 PM
 
Location: US Empire, Pac NW
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I have gained some muscle mass since I started working out seriously about a year ago. Now, I've also gained fat weight because I'm on a high protein diet but will be cutting back the calories and carbs now and get leaner. It's really hard to get in shape but I'm glad I am.

As for my wife ... she appreciates me getting stronger and one day we saw a guy about my size, only stronger, and I was like "how about that hon? If I got that strong?" Her eyes lit up and was like "yay!"

that's my goal now. She does NOT want me to be bodybuilder size, and she prefer I keep some fat to snuggle on.
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Old 01-11-2010, 06:44 PM
 
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I know the relationships section is hurting for original topics but this is just awful. LADYEIS OF UR MENS WORE UH SNUGGIE WUOULD U FEND HIM MOAR ATTRACCTVIE??
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Old 01-11-2010, 06:52 PM
 
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I know the relationships section is hurting for original topics but this is just awful. LADYEIS OF UR MENS WORE UH SNUGGIE WUOULD U FEND HIM MOAR ATTRACCTVIE??
At least someone gets my writing style. I throw little things into threads to mix it up a little. It keeps the reader (male) on his toes! Rugged
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Old 01-11-2010, 06:54 PM
 
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I know the relationships section is hurting for original topics but this is just awful. LADYEIS OF UR MENS WORE UH SNUGGIE WUOULD U FEND HIM MOAR ATTRACCTVIE??

lighten up jason
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Old 01-12-2010, 06:45 AM
 
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I would. Fo' sho'.
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Old 01-12-2010, 08:04 AM
 
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And he would be saying..."Would you keeps your hands off me woman and let a man rest". - Sexually attractive being the key word....

A man with muscles is REALLY a huge turn-on
Ah then you would like these guys.

http://www2.waterforduhs.k12.wi.us/staffweb/tolbert/Hans%20and%20Franz.jpg (broken link)

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Old 01-12-2010, 09:06 AM
 
Location: southwest TN
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If your husband was a lil tubby or is a lil tubby, and all of a sudden he started working out, and got super cut and muscular, would that make you more attracted to him? Would you start becoming jealous of other girls checking him out?> Would you find him more sexually attractive?
None of the above. I find my husband incredibly sexy as he is and I see women checking him out all the time. I'm not jealous, I gloat - let 'em look; I know where his heart is.

My husband is no longer in the same buff shape he was in when we met, but I don't care - the important part of him - inside - is still as sexy and as much of a turn-on as the day we met.
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Old 01-12-2010, 10:54 AM
 
Location: New England
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It didn't seem to do anything for my wife. This past summer, I got into pretty good shape. Not muscular, but cut. She was barely supportive. I know (in my mind, anyway) that she would rather see me with a little flab.

Go figure.
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Old 01-12-2010, 10:56 AM
 
Location: in the good ol' South
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I would, no doubt. I'm in better shape now than when we got married, but my dh....well, he's turned into a couch potato.
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Old 01-12-2010, 11:10 AM
 
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If your husband was a lil tubby or is a lil tubby, and all of a sudden he started working out, and got super cut and muscular, would that make you more attracted to him? Would you start becoming jealous of other girls checking him out?> Would you find him more sexually attractive?
Jealous? No. But of course I'd find him more attractive if he was getting in better shape. Seems like a silly question to me.
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