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Old 02-02-2010, 03:05 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Over analyse their relationships and potential relationships. You should know who you are, my advice relax abit more and go with the flow.
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Old 02-02-2010, 03:09 AM
 
Location: Whoville....
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One problem is we judge our inside by everyone elses outside. We know all the details of our relationships but only what others want to show about theirs. It should come as no surprise that their relationships look better than ours.
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Old 02-02-2010, 05:13 AM
 
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Over analyse their relationships and potential relationships. You should know who you are, my advice relax abit more and go with the flow.

Or else!
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Old 02-02-2010, 05:57 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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I agree, Dave nz. I think there are some posters who do this more than others. I enjoy offering my advice but I've rarely been in a position where I felt the need to ask others for their advice in my personal life / romantic life. If you are an adult and don't know how to maintain a relationship yet, there is something deeper going on. (Disclaimer, this does not apply to everyone, it's only a general statement) LOL
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Old 02-02-2010, 07:08 AM
 
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I agree. A little advice never hurts, but in the long run, only you know more about that person than what the relationship forum can know.
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Old 02-02-2010, 07:23 AM
 
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Over analyse their relationships and potential relationships. You should know who you are, my advice relax abit more and go with the flow.

Ooooh...

You're saying put the paddle down and glide for a while.

Got it.
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Old 02-02-2010, 07:24 AM
 
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i think they are strong for asking for advice.
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Old 02-02-2010, 07:36 AM
 
Location: Philly
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Good point. I am an analytic person by nature, and but it hurts a relationship with another person more than it helps it.

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One problem is we judge our inside by everyone elses outside. We know all the details of our relationships but only what others want to show about theirs. It should come as no surprise that their relationships look better than ours.
This is another good point. You talk to people, and you'll learn that their lives are no walk in the park. The successful ones learn to work with each other, though. That's the difference.
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Old 02-02-2010, 07:47 AM
 
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I think everyone needs to reach their own level of understanding. What you call overanalysis might be the answers to their questions.
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Old 02-02-2010, 08:32 AM
 
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Over analyse their relationships and potential relationships. You should know who you are, my advice relax abit more and go with the flow.
Dave...........

It's like telling a guy that truly loves his work and working 17 hours a day is pure enjoyment to him. Along comes someone and they say "relax and try to have fun once in awhile".........the guy is relaxing and having fun, it's just not your idea if what having fun and relaxing is.



Ron
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