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Old 06-27-2010, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Amarillo TX
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Old 06-27-2010, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Amarillo TX
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OK, Jessie, I get your point (kinda) but you gotta admitte that american woman have hell of high standards, like waaaaaaaaaaay too much for men. Now I know, in some ways going to another country for women might seam "feminist" but it's not. if you were a man you'd understand
 
Old 06-27-2010, 09:26 PM
 
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OK, Jessie, I get your point (kinda) but you gotta admitte that american woman have hell of high standards, like waaaaaaaaaaay too much for men. Now I know, in some ways going to another country for women might seam "feminist" but it's not. if you were a man you'd understand
How do you know what standards women in other countries have? What is your source of information? As someone who grew up in a country that is a major source of mail-order brides, I find really hilarious this idea that far-away countries are steeped in traditional American values of the 1950's.
 
Old 06-27-2010, 09:28 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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How do you know what standards women in other countries have? What is your source of information? As someone who grew up in a country that is a major source of mail-order brides, I find really hilarious this idea that far-away countries are steeped in traditional American values of the 1950's.
What? Beautiful 20-year-old Russian women aren't yearning to vacuum in frilly aprons? The hell you say.
 
Old 06-27-2010, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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I've noticed that feminists and NA women hate seeing men go overseas. If that happens, they belittle or discourage them from going overseas.
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The solution on solving all this issue is simple. Men instead of dating north American women that make you so unhappy date foreign women.




The jerks have no problem in the dating pool. N.A. women love them and only look for other types when the bills start to pile up.

Of course, one man's (or parent's) jerk is another woman's dreamy guy - until she has to rely on him.
 
Old 06-27-2010, 10:09 PM
 
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I've noticed that feminists and NA women hate seeing men go overseas. If that happens, they belittle or discourage them from going overseas.
Not at all. I think everyone should go overseas at some point, you know, to see the sights and to sample a different culture. Also, everyone should learn at least one foreign language and study at least one foreign culture in-depth, in order to gain perspective. It's not a good idea to remain cooped up in one's own little world. If you do, you might develop ideas about the "overseas" that are very amusing for those of us who are actually familiar with that land.
 
Old 06-27-2010, 10:39 PM
 
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I find it endlessly amusing that some men continue to believe 'foreign' women are so submissive.
Who said anything about foreign women being submissive? I think I can speak for most men in saying we like femininity, which is something western women have lost a lot of over the years. On top of that foreign women are much more appreciative of men who can bring home the bacon, that provider aspect, which is something western women clearly take for granted these days. They're generally look better from their lack of processed and fast foods in their diets and being more physically active. Lastly, something western women also don't even probably think about anymore, is that western men are much softer, more caring, and just all around less brutal that what a lot of foreign women are used to.

Years ago I went to Romania for a military thing. The girls at the lounge in the hotel where we were staying balled their eyes out when they found out we were heading back and we found out that the manager/owner was pretty brutal to the girls that worked at the lounge we all hung out at. Basically slapped them around like he was their pimp or something to get them to working harder. When was the last time a manager roughed up a female employee as a daily part of their job in any Western nation? All together their level of just basic appreciation for who we were was astounding and is definitely a desirable thing in women. When it all comes right down to it it's a case of entitlement mentality vs being appreciated. FYI, 2 guys married girls they met on that trip and one had an LDR, although I don't know whatever happened to them. A few years later we had another thing over there and 2 more guys got married as a result.

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Old 06-27-2010, 10:48 PM
 
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What? Beautiful 20-year-old Russian women aren't yearning to vacuum in frilly aprons? The hell you say.
That would be a great name for a band: The Frilly Aprons.

But anyway...
 
Old 06-27-2010, 10:51 PM
 
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isn't that the great irony?

they want the woman to not be independent, yet .... it's exactly what the woman is seeking! to get out of their home country & get some $$$.

(but if a western woman works & has an independent lifestyle, she's an evil feminist! )
Men like that want the women not to be independent--and then they'll complain that the women just married them for their money.
 
Old 06-27-2010, 10:54 PM
 
Location: southern california
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OK, Jessie, I get your point (kinda) but you gotta admitte that american woman have hell of high standards, like waaaaaaaaaaay too much for men. Now I know, in some ways going to another country for women might seam "feminist" but it's not. if you were a man you'd understand
a 2 wanting a 10 is not a high standard--- it is an unrealistic expectation.
its like the owner who puts a sign in the front yard. FSBO (for sale by owner) 2 bedrm 1 bath, 1st 9 million takes it.

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