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Old 01-14-2010, 08:26 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I'm not the one with a lack of desire for sex.

" I have a view of who you used to be in high school and I know that’s not how it is anymore and I need to get beyond that a step into the present. How do I not accept you? I will always stand by you… I don’t know what’s wrong with my sexuality… :/ "

I asked him if he was gay. He said he's sure he's not.
I'll go ballistic if a woman asked me that LMAO
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:32 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I'm not the one with a lack of desire for sex.

" I have a view of who you used to be in high school and I know that’s not how it is anymore and I need to get beyond that a step into the present. How do I not accept you? I will always stand by you… I don’t know what’s wrong with my sexuality… :/ "

I asked him if he was gay. He said he's sure he's not.

Haven't you been out of high school a while? If ten pounds can't be noticed by your friends, it can't be that dramatic so I don't get what he is saying about all that.

The bold statement bothers me the most. After 5 years, why is he talking about "accepting" you? Like you are damaged goods or something?

I encourage you to go back through these posts and read YOURS.....it should give you some insight into this relationship and how one-sided it is.
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:35 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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So I was talking to him this morning, and he's so against breaking up it's actually starting to **** me off. I hate these mixed signals.
Of course he is, you caught on to him to soon. Doesn't matter your going in the military, it's a good way to move on without the drama, let him have his meltdown.
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:42 AM
 
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Definitely time to ditch him. He's a judgmental, appearance-obsessed mama's boy who's not interested in sex with you although he's in his early 20's and should be thinking about little else. To top it off, he's a little bitty fella.

This is the time in your life when you should enjoy being young, hot and appreciated. Take it from a 48-year-old who's feeling every year, but can still remember the good ol' days.
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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If a woman I was dating seriously asked me if I was gay, I would go f*cking ballistic at her. That is rude and disrespectful, and I'd rip her head off. You sure do have some big balls for asking him that.
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:52 AM
 
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If a woman I was dating seriously asked me if I was gay, I would go f*cking ballistic at her. That is rude and disrespectful, and I'd rip her head off. You sure do have some big balls for asking him that.
After all he's said to me, he can man up and take it. lol
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:52 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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If a woman I was dating seriously asked me if I was gay, I would go f*cking ballistic at her. That is rude and disrespectful, and I'd rip her head off. You sure do have some big balls for asking him that.
Well, you did recommend she grow a set in another post.
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:53 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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I understand what you mean, but there are only a finite amount of reasons why he's NOT sexually interested in her ?

1/ Gay

2/ Affair

3/ He genuinely believes the OP is fat

4/ He just has a low sex drive, and their relationship is just at one of those stages.

5/ He no longer finds her attractive generally, and is beginning the "winding down" process.

TBH, there aren't too many other options ?


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If a woman I was dating seriously asked me if I was gay, I would go f*cking ballistic at her. That is rude and disrespectful, and I'd rip her head off. You sure do have some big balls for asking him that.
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:54 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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After all he's said to me, he can man up and take it. lol
The way to solve an issue is not by slinging insults back and forth.... that's the grade school approach.
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Old 01-14-2010, 08:54 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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If a woman I was dating seriously asked me if I was gay, I would go f*cking ballistic at her. That is rude and disrespectful, and I'd rip her head off. You sure do have some big balls for asking him that.
Didn't you tell her to grow a pair? I sure did.
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