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Old 01-26-2014, 09:51 PM
 
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There was a seminar at my college. Some women said "Difficult women are usually worth it." I commented and said "If she's difficult, I don't want her. I'm not wasting time on a woman like that." An old woman told me "You're just a little boy then." I told her off. I said "Lady, I don't care what you or any woman thinks of me! Shaming tactics don't work on me." Was I wrong for this comment? Do you think difficult women are worth it?
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Old 01-26-2014, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Are difficult men worth it?
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Old 01-26-2014, 09:53 PM
 
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What do you mean by difficult?

Not easy to get in the sack?
Having a brain and knowing how to use it?
Cranky?
Something else?
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Old 01-26-2014, 10:00 PM
 
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Are difficult men worth it?
I wouldn't know. I'm very easy to get along with
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Old 01-26-2014, 10:01 PM
 
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What do you mean by difficult?

Not easy to get in the sack?
Having a brain and knowing how to use it?
Cranky?
Something else?
These women seemed to have bad attitudes. Who knows what they meant.
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Old 01-26-2014, 10:04 PM
 
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These women seemed to have bad attitudes. Who knows what they meant.
Oh kinda like some people on the board (male and females) and their attitudes about the other gender? I'd not try to pursue someone with a bad attitude. Until they were happy with their life they aren't relationship material in my opinion. I'd be kind and decent to them when I crossed their path, but that would be it.
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Old 01-26-2014, 10:04 PM
 
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I wouldn't know. I'm very easy to get along with
That's not what the old lady told me. Lol

But seriously we all have quirks that are a pain, but it's the level each is willing to deal with along with intensity.
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Old 01-26-2014, 10:07 PM
 
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Oh kinda like some people on the board (male and females) and their attitudes about the other gender? I'd not try to pursue someone with a bad attitude. Until they were happy with their life they aren't relationship material in my opinion. I'd be kind and decent to them when I crossed their path, but that would be it.
love this
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Old 01-26-2014, 10:10 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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There was a seminar at my college. Some women said "Difficult women are usually worth it." I commented and said "If she's difficult, I don't want her. I'm not wasting time on a woman like that." An old woman told me "You're just a little boy then." I told her off. I said "Lady, I don't care what you or any woman thinks of me! Shaming tactics don't work on me." Was I wrong for this comment? Do you think difficult women are worth it?
Good for you for sticking up for yourself! I don't even know what that's supposed to mean, "difficult women are usually worth it". Who needs drama? But some people can handle it, and some difficult men/women need love, they've just been bruised on the road of life. So it's good that some people are willing to deal with the drama in order to get the payoff in the end. I knew one couple like that. It really worked out well in the end.
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Old 01-26-2014, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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There was a seminar at my college. Some women said "Difficult women are usually worth it." I commented and said "If she's difficult, I don't want her. I'm not wasting time on a woman like that." An old woman told me "You're just a little boy then." I told her off. I said "Lady, I don't care what you or any woman thinks of me! Shaming tactics don't work on me." Was I wrong for this comment? Do you think difficult women are worth it?

Nope, you're not wrong.
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