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Old 01-23-2010, 03:01 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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I know there's a lot of talk about "lists" in reference to what people on this forum are looking for in a significant other and that led me to do some thinking about what's really on my "list." I know in the past, I have had an assortment of varied traits on it - everything from tall to kind to funny to looks good in a suit. I don't particularly pay much attention to it as I'm not in the time or place to be thinking about settling down, but sometimes I do wonder what I want in my future husband - what I am really looking for.

Recent thought has led me to summarize my entire list into a single sentence that covers every single thing I'm looking for in a guy, but does not nit pick at details.

Behold:

I want a man that I can look up to, respect, trust (in many different aspects) and love (in and out of the bedroom) and who feels the same way toward me.


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Old 01-23-2010, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Ah, come on, mango, you're gonna have the posse come hit on you all over again
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Old 01-23-2010, 03:05 PM
 
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Ah, come on, mango, you're gonna have the posse come hit on you all over again
LOL it's okay. They're all bark.

I just really wanted to share my little epiphany.
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Old 01-23-2010, 03:06 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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LOL it's okay. They're all bark.

I just really wanted to share my little epiphany.
Since you said potential SOs on this forum........ let me warn you. Never EVER hook up online.
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Old 01-23-2010, 03:11 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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Since you said potential SOs on this forum........ let me warn you. Never EVER hook up online.


I was not referring to relationships WITH people on this forum, but what people on this forum LOOK FOR in relationships.

Sorry, for the confusion. No worries, I'm not an online type of girl. I like warm flesh, breath, and beating hearts.
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Old 01-23-2010, 03:13 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I was not referring to relationships WITH people on this forum, but what people on this forum LOOK FOR in relationships.

Sorry, for the confusion. No worries, I'm not an online type of girl. I like warm flesh, breath, and beating hearts.
Ok, good. Now back to scheduled programming
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Old 01-23-2010, 03:13 PM
 
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I want a man that I can look up to, respect, trust (in many different aspects) and love (in and out of the bedroom) and who feels the same way toward me.

Wow, you are asking a lot out of a man. Next your going to expect them to invent a time machine.
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Old 01-23-2010, 03:14 PM
 
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I once made the humorous observation that if I was to remove all of a woman's bad qualities in order for her to be a good dating prospect, she would be comatose. Hopefully the day arrives when there is a medication available to treat misogyny.
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Old 01-23-2010, 06:50 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I know there's a lot of talk about "lists" in reference to what people on this forum are looking for in a significant other and that led me to do some thinking about what's really on my "list." I know in the past, I have had an assortment of varied traits on it - everything from tall to kind to funny to looks good in a suit. I don't particularly pay much attention to it as I'm not in the time or place to be thinking about settling down, but sometimes I do wonder what I want in my future husband - what I am really looking for.

Recent thought has led me to summarize my entire list into a single sentence that covers every single thing I'm looking for in a guy, but does not nit pick at details.

Behold:

I want a man that I can look up to, respect, trust (in many different aspects) and love (in and out of the bedroom) and who feels the same way toward me.

That is so perfect. You don't even need the parenthetical remarks.
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Old 01-23-2010, 06:53 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I know there's a lot of talk about "lists" in reference to what people on this forum are looking for in a significant other and that led me to do some thinking about what's really on my "list." I know in the past, I have had an assortment of varied traits on it - everything from tall to kind to funny to looks good in a suit. I don't particularly pay much attention to it as I'm not in the time or place to be thinking about settling down, but sometimes I do wonder what I want in my future husband - what I am really looking for.

Recent thought has led me to summarize my entire list into a single sentence that covers every single thing I'm looking for in a guy, but does not nit pick at details.

Behold:

I want a man that I can look up to, respect, trust (in many different aspects) and love (in and out of the bedroom) and who feels the same way toward me.

Best list I have ever seen
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