What's your opinion? - No Child Haters Please (personal, legal, like)
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Regardless of how he came to be, the guy still has a son. Why would he refuse to have anything to do with the child, it isn't his sons fault what his mother did? That has to one of the most ridiculous things I've heard someone try to justify. Just picture his son coming to him one day and asking him why he wasn't around, makes me want to cry thinking about it.
I just want to know what the Father is going to say when the son grows up and sees him" Hi Dad, thanks for being an effen d*ck,(kick him in the nards) Now you won't disappoint anymore children. Bye sperm donor!"
Well getting tubes tied aren't as easy as some think. I would get mine done immediately, but I cannot because the doctors believe I am too young.
I've seen my aunts struggle with this and some of my friends. They (GYN's) know what is best for us, so we need their permission.
It's a crock of crap, isn't it? If you were a stupid 18 year old girl with fertility problems, you damn well better believe they're gonna fix that!
When I was in my mid 30's, I decided I should probably have a complete gyno work-up done since my periods had never been regular. The Dr. was practically hysterical that I may not be able to get pregnant if we don't fix this right now! I told him I don't plan to have kids, I wasn't here to "fix" my fertility, I'm here to find out if there's a problem I should be aware of. But he made it all about my fertility, because, as a woman, how could I possibly know what I was talking about! So I told him I wouldn't be coming back. Jerk.
I've got better alternatives. Abortion is still legal, for one thing. And there's always chemistry.
then you're just as dumb as the subject's idiot. YOU don't have a choice in the abortion. YOU have a choice as to who you give your wallet to. But like I said, you're obviously just as dumb as the guy trapped paying for a kid he never intended to have.
No, because I believe in solving problems when they come up.
If you want to solve the problem "when it comes up", then don't stick it in part of the problem.
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I told him I don't plan to have kids, I wasn't here to "fix" my fertility, I'm here to find out if there's a problem I should be aware of. But he made it all about my fertility, because, as a woman, how could I possibly know what I was talking about!
So I told him I wouldn't be coming back. Jerk.
