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Originally Posted by WanderingImport
I think she was just trying to be nice about it instead of blowing the guy off without a reason... though I guess that's how it's done usually.
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I actually went back and forth on this topic when I was using on-line dating. Some of the gals I would contact obviously had a ton of guys of guys contacting them and several told me that when they'd write a nice "not interested" note back they'd get hateful nasty responses.
So, some gals I would respond "not interested to" but a few others (like a married gal) I did ignore. I did have one gal turn nasty on me too, oh well.
So, I never take on-line dating personally whether they respond or not. I actually got a date from one gal for being really cool when she told me she wasn't interested. She came back and we had a nice date but were just on different pages.
So, I don't think there is a right or wrong approach...we are all on there to meet people in a time-efficient manner...not trade emails with people that will be nasty back to us etc.