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Old 10-25-2010, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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She ask me to take her to the fair one Sat. night, and I said I would.
She never called, and I never heard another thing about it, until like 4 days later, when she was telling me that her sister took her, and they had such a great time! Honestly, I didn`t really wanna go, I was just being nice to offer to take her.

OK. A week or so later, she calls me one night and ask me to take her up to the radio station...that she won two free tickets to this show that she was wanting to see..same one actually...
I didn`t wanna because I had to work the next day, but told her I would take her after work. She left me a message on my answering machine early AM that day, and told me that her sister was going to take her to get the tickets, so she didn`t need for me to take her....

I assumed that since her sister took her the first time, and she did not call to remind me about it, that like the first time, her sister was going to take her.
I talk to her like a week after that, and she didn`t seem angry or upset...

A few days later, she calls my husband`s phone, which she never does..and gets on to him about not taking her to this show. He is like, "What are you talking about?" What show?"
He said she acted like a big baby. Instead of her calling my phone, and confronting me about it, since she did ask me to take her, she calls him.

I think she is bored, and looking to start drama! What do ya` all think?
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:19 PM
 
Location: maryland
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Tell her to act like an adult and to kiss your posterior .
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Tell her to act like an adult and to kiss your posterior .
She doesn`t have anything to do all day but sit over there and smoke cigarettes, and get on that radio station.
The car that I bought for her, she didn`t take care of, so now she has no vehicle. I cannot afford to buy her another one.
I`m going to let her know that I do not "play games."
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:24 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Shes feeling neglected. The older they get, the worse it becomes.

I just saw your other post...I was gonna say to much free time, but I didn't want to assume.
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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Call her up and simply ask, "is there a misunderstanding we need to discuss?" Let her explain her version, offer your version and move on. And the next time she needs your services but doesn't really, just be busy.
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:27 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Sounds like drama on her part or maybe she's just lonely.
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:27 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Shes feeling neglected. The older they get, the worse it becomes.

I just saw your other post...I was gonna say to much free time, but I didn't want to assume.
I know....I should be more understanding of older folks, but this just hit me wrong.
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:28 PM
 
Location: maryland
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Have her join city data yankee so you and her can bond more freely
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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She's just looking for some attention from you - some "proof" you care. Older people with too much time on their hands can get this way.

You don't have to allow yourself to be emotionally manipulated, but try to find one or two things you can do for her every once in a while to brighten her day. Your husband will appreciate it I'm sure
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Old 10-25-2010, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Have her join city data yankee so you and her can bond more freely
HA HA! No way man..This is my playtime. Get!
She already ask me to get on her radio station on the internet, and I tried to get into it, but shew..... I mean, they play music like..Harper Valley PTA..
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