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<sigh> Man, this makes me SO glad I don't have any drama like this in my life! I am SO glad that I'm not that young anymore LOL
I'm 100% with you on this.
Anyway, OP, if this is how the roommate situation works in the "probationary" period, think how it would be if you were to make it permanent. I think it's time to simply tell him that it's not working out and you will move on. Don't add to the drama or play his game by detailing your reasons, just say it's not working.
Thanks you guys. I'm still upset. I doubt he has a thing for me honestly. Don't think I'm his type. Not sure why he did this. Anyway, I think it best that I leave. I'm glad I can come here and vent and get advice. *hugs*
Thanks you guys. I'm still upset. I doubt he has a thing for me honestly. Don't think I'm his type. Not sure why he did this. Anyway, I think it best that I leave. I'm glad I can come here and vent and get advice. *hugs*
Have you confronted him about his behaviour, and why he did this?
So how did you handle it? Have you brought it up yet?
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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313
Have you confronted him about his behaviour, and why he did this?
I have not. I got home Saturday morning and had a class shortly thereafter. I didn't see much of him that day. He left Sunday morning and is currently out of state. I could call or email him about it but I haven't done so.
I have not. I got home Saturday morning and had a class shortly thereafter. I didn't see much of him that day. He left Sunday morning and is currently out of state. I could call or email him about it but I haven't done so.
He wouldn't be surprised if I do move out. It's a trial situation. I just moved from another state and decided to rent from him instead of a stranger since he has a spare bedroom. But we both know that this is most likely temporary. Also, it isn't the cheapest accommodations I could get so I could just tell him I found something cheaper which I did.
We weren't close friends to begin with. I feel like it's not even worth it to bring it up and try to work things out. There's really nothing to work out.
He wouldn't be surprised if I do move out. It's a trial situation. I just moved from another state and decided to rent from him instead of a stranger since he has a spare bedroom. But we both know that this is most likely temporary. Also, it isn't the cheapest accommodations I could get so I could just tell him I found something cheaper which I did.
We weren't close friends to begin with. I feel like it's not even worth it to bring it up and try to work things out. There's really nothing to work out.
I don`t know. If ya` all are "just roomates" and it was suppose to be on "a trial bases" of being,"just roomates" then I really do not understand all of this extra drama. Have you slept with this guy, and gave him the wrong impression perhaps?
Do you really mean to ask her if they had sex? Sleeping with someone is not a cause for drama. It's not what happens when people are asleep that's the problem.
He wouldn't be surprised if I do move out. It's a trial situation. I just moved from another state and decided to rent from him instead of a stranger since he has a spare bedroom. But we both know that this is most likely temporary. Also, it isn't the cheapest accommodations I could get so I could just tell him I found something cheaper which I did.
We weren't close friends to begin with. I feel like it's not even worth it to bring it up and try to work things out. There's really nothing to work out.
Kind of off the subject here...but are you bound by a lease? If so, make sure you won't be breaking any of those terms if you do move out.
Good luck
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