Help! I need somebody!Help! (girl, kids, friend, couple)
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she has decided that she really likes you as more than a friend, or she likes another guy and doesn't want to be too close to you so that guy doesn't get jealous.
Whatever it is, just remember that there will be life after HS, and most of what happens there is irrelevant in the 'real world'.
I am sooo happy to be beyond those years - now have an 8th grader myself, so I'm on the other side of the coin now.
I see you go to high school in Mesa. It wouldn't happen to be the one on Guadalupe would it? I used to live several blocks from that school.
As far as your problem is concerned the last post hit the nail on the head. Just ask her point blank, plain and simple. When people are in their teens they're going through all sorts of changes and turmoil and sometimes you can't figure out what in the world is going on. If it turns out that she continues to ignore you or you can't get an answer then it's time to move on and try to get over it. I know that sounds a little cold but it's actually good advice. In any case I wish you good luck.
I go to RM on Brown. I just can't get her attention at all, and I don't want to seem like I'm stalking her, but her sudden mood change is still affecting me. And for as many friend's that I have, losing her as a friend is like me losing an arm. It's very painful, I think about it for a long time, and I will miss them very much.
A friend of mine, a girl, has been treating me like crap lately, AND I DON'T KNOW WHY??? We have been friend's for half a year, we hug eachother when ever we say hello or goodbye, we hold conversations, we just do what friends do. But lately, and I mean just starting this week, she started to ignore me. She refuses any hugs from me, she pretends I'm not there when I'm with her in a group, she walks faster or she goes to the otherside of the person she is walking with to get away from me, and she ignores and I bet deletes my messages. She has been going through some drama lately, none of which has to do anything with me, but she seems only to be taking it out on me.
Please help me, I need advice. I was friends with her on Friday last week, then this Monday she said she was mad at me for no reason, and it evolved from there. Should I ignore her too and let her cool off before she comes back to me? Should I fight back by using everybody I know that knows her to be against her?
P.S I'm in highschool so I don't know if the advice should change for age. Idk. Thank you for taking your time into reading my personal issue
PhxGuy, let me help you out here.
The first thing a man needs to learn in dealings with the opposite sex is self-respect. The more you have it, the less of this kind of nonsense you suffer.
At all times you should be polite and considerate of others. But that doesn't mean you let yourself be a doormat. Women hate doormats. They really really really hate doormats.
So my advice to you? Don't confront her. Just ignore it. If she talks to you, be cordial. But don't act likes things are back to normal with the two of you.
Sooner or later, when she stops acting this way, she'll want to know what's up. You don't act defensive or resentful. Instead be pretty matter-of-fact about it and say, "Look, I'm not sure what was going a few weeks ago, but you weren't speaking to me, you were ignoring me, and generally being rude. And I really don't have time for that kind of treatment from my friends." And be done.
She'll either apologize or she'll stop being your friend. Either one of these two options is far better than this weird limbo you're in right now.
The first thing a man needs to learn in dealings with the opposite sex is self-respect. The more you have it, the less of this kind of nonsense you suffer.
At all times you should be polite and considerate of others. But that doesn't mean you let yourself be a doormat. Women hate doormats. They really really really hate doormats.
So my advice to you? Don't confront her. Just ignore it. If she talks to you, be cordial. But don't act likes things are back to normal with the two of you.
Sooner or later, when she stops acting this way, she'll want to know what's up. You don't act defensive or resentful. Instead be pretty matter-of-fact about it and say, "Look, I'm not sure what was going a few weeks ago, but you weren't speaking to me, you were ignoring me, and generally being rude. And I really don't have time for that kind of treatment from my friends." And be done.
She'll either apologize or she'll stop being your friend. Either one of these two options is far better than this weird limbo you're in right now.
The first thing a man needs to learn in dealings with the opposite sex is self-respect. The more you have it, the less of this kind of nonsense you suffer.
At all times you should be polite and considerate of others. But that doesn't mean you let yourself be a doormat. Women hate doormats. They really really really hate doormats.
So my advice to you? Don't confront her. Just ignore it. If she talks to you, be cordial. But don't act likes things are back to normal with the two of you.
Sooner or later, when she stops acting this way, she'll want to know what's up. You don't act defensive or resentful. Instead be pretty matter-of-fact about it and say, "Look, I'm not sure what was going a few weeks ago, but you weren't speaking to me, you were ignoring me, and generally being rude. And I really don't have time for that kind of treatment from my friends." And be done.
She'll either apologize or she'll stop being your friend. Either one of these two options is far better than this weird limbo you're in right now.
I guess your right. This came up so fast that I didn't know how to react. It has been 2 days since she has decided to ignore me all together, and both of those days I have confronted her and tried to see what was wrong. I do think that ignoring her is the best option. Thank you.
she has decided that she really likes you as more than a friend, or she likes another guy and doesn't want to be too close to you so that guy doesn't get jealous.
Whatever it is, just remember that there will be life after HS, and most of what happens there is irrelevant in the 'real world'.
I am sooo happy to be beyond those years - now have an 8th grader myself, so I'm on the other side of the coin now.
Good luck!
She doesn't have a boyfriend anymore but she does hang out with more guys than girls
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