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Timely thread, with plenty of good tidbits.
I'm going on a date tonight, a first date. Actually the first date I've had in over twenty two years.
i hope that I won't have a huge list #1 things that ticks me off to share. LOL.
Good luck!
I would have to say a major turn off would be to use the "F" word!
Hopefully, he would be mature enough to have out grown this stage.
Another one would be if he was late!
Timely thread, with plenty of good tidbits.
I'm going on a date tonight, a first date. Actually the first date I've had in over twenty two years.
i hope that I won't have a huge list #1 things that ticks me off to share. LOL.
haha Well, you'll have to come back tomorrow and let us know if there's anything to add to the list! And hell, you might have a good enough story to start a new thread
yep! I will add I went on a date with this guy it was going pretty well until.....the first date goodnight kiss. He seemed pretty reserved the rest of the date so I was expecting maybe a small peck or something but no I seriously think he was either trying to eat my face or drown me in drool..eww
Been there, had that happen to me too! But it wasn't such a great date up to that point either. Firstly, he said we were "going out to dinner"...we went to Applebee's and had appetizers and beer. That was really okay with me though because I loved their appetizers. Then he said he had a place he wanted to take me so he took me to the local VFW Hall! Now, that might not have been too bad but when we played pool he insisted that I wrack the balls. Why? So he could 'check out' my butt everytime. So, I said no more pool. First date...lots of embarassment. We sat at a table and 'tried' to talk but he kept getting involved with the 'old guys' at the bar and wanted to get in on swapping 'war stories'. Booooooooring. I had driven my own car to meet him...learned THAT lesson really early on...and told him I had to go. He walked me to my car, grabbed me and tried to push his face right through my head! And slobbery? Yuck!!!!
That was a first and last date but he knew where I hung out and would show up there sometimes. I finally had my cousin "talk to him".
And then there was the old fart who kept telling me, every 15 minutes, that he wasn't trying to get into my pants. It had never entered my mind that he was/would and it irritated me that he kept saying it. After him, and few others my age, I quit dating altogether and it's been years.
I haven't done a lot of the "dating" thing having been married for 10 years, but I'm sure I'll have some to relate once I hear others.
One that I related to from the guys thread, is people that try to talk politics on the first date, a subject that rarely ends with out the other party being pissed off.
For me, "putting it on me" really gets to me on the first date. If a guy makes a move like that, it just makes me think that is all he wanted all along.
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But it wasn't such a great date up to that point either. Firstly, he said we were "going out to dinner"...we went to Applebee's and had appetizers and beer. That was really okay with me though because I loved their appetizers. Then he said he had a place he wanted to take me so he took me to the local VFW Hall! Now, that might not have been too bad but when we played pool he insisted that I wrack the balls. Why? So he could 'check out' my butt everytime. So, I said no more pool. First date...lots of embarassment. We sat at a table and 'tried' to talk but he kept getting involved with the 'old guys' at the bar and wanted to get in on swapping 'war stories'. Booooooooring. I had driven my own car to meet him...learned THAT lesson really early on...and told him I had to go. He walked me to my car, grabbed me and tried to push his face right through my head! And slobbery? Yuck!!!! 
