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Old 02-05-2010, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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I don't think I'm drunk enough to get that one ?

Care to elaborate ?
There are tons of double standards out there where it's fine if women do it, and bad if men do it. The only that that isn't that way is if a guy has lots of sex, he's a player, and woman is a ****. But the deal is that for men, it's actually an accomplishment to get laid, whereas a woman only needs a pulse. So for women, having a lot of sex is like being a glutton. We don't look favorably on people who eat 10 whoppers.
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Old 02-05-2010, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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DontH8Me wrote:

I think she's got a point there. In order for a man to actually engage in sexual activity he has to be aroused if you know what I mean and that would seem to prove that it's consensual or at least that he's enjoying it.
That's a BS argument. Plenty of women have orgasms while being raped. doesn't make it any less rape.
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Old 02-05-2010, 12:56 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Men get boners while they sleep. Comatose men get them. Gawky, mortified teenage boys get them in school for no reason. It's just erectile tissue. It responds to stimulation.

Any woman who thinks that erectile tissue has anything to do with the brain ... test that theory by going outside in a thin shirt on a cold day.
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Old 02-05-2010, 12:56 PM
 
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DontH8Me wrote:

I think she's got a point there. In order for a man to actually engage in sexual activity he has to be aroused if you know what I mean and that would seem to prove that it's consensual or at least that he's enjoying it.
Beating another dead horse! I know!
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Old 02-05-2010, 12:57 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Under normal circumstances, yes, but the body is a mysterious thing.
Many men can experience erections under extreme stress, I don't claim to be enough of an expert to know how it works.

As I said on the other thread, many male rape survivors find the guilt of this extremely difficult to deal with.


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DontH8Me wrote:

I think she's got a point there. In order for a man to actually engage in sexual activity he has to be aroused if you know what I mean and that would seem to prove that it's consensual or at least that he's enjoying it.
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Old 02-05-2010, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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That's a BS argument. Plenty of women have orgasms while being raped. doesn't make it any less rape.
Please provide data for your ludicrous assumptions?
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Old 02-05-2010, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Studies have shown that a man can respond to physical stimulation during an assault even if he isn't mentally or emotionally stimulated.
When you're a kid you could get wood from thinking about tax returns.
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Old 02-05-2010, 12:59 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Men get boners while they sleep. Comatose men get them. Gawky, mortified teenage boys get them in school for no reason. It's just erectile tissue. It responds to stimulation.

Any woman who thinks that erectile tissue has anything to do with the brain ... test that theory by going outside in a thin shirt on a cold day.
Beyond that, you get erections from being hanged too. Called a death erection. You don't even have to be alive to have one!
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Old 02-05-2010, 01:00 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Ok, I think I see your point now.

Are you trying to say that there's the perception that women victims are just victims, but male victims are *******, because they should have "manned up" and fought harder ?

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There are tons of double standards out there where it's fine if women do it, and bad if men do it.
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Old 02-05-2010, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Please provide data for your ludicrous assumptions?

Elsevier

I won't even demand an apology
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