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Old 02-09-2010, 05:40 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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For someone like me I know exactly how many girls/women I have been with.

Now for people who have had tons of sexual partners......
Do they actually have a number in their head, of exactly how many they have had.
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:09 AM
 
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For someone like me I know exactly how many girls/women I have been with.

Now for people who have had tons of sexual partners......
Do they actually have a number in their head, of exactly how many they have had.
I expect that each person is different. For people that it matters to, they probably do keep a tally in their head. For me, it would take far too long to go back and revisit the past to come up with a number. So I don't even go there. I'm sure my BF would be appalled anyway, so I think I'd rather not even know.
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:14 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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I doubt that athletes, rock stars, and others who have tons of partners keep count, afterall to them it's only sex no deeper meaning.
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:14 AM
 
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I expect that each person is different. For people that it matters to, they probably do keep a tally in their head. For me, it would take far too long to go back and revisit the past to come up with a number. So I don't even go there. I'm sure my BF would be appalled anyway, so I think I'd rather not even know.
What Chessie said!

Discussing and/or keeping numbers is a monumental waste of time and anybody overly interested in numbers needs to find another hobby.
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:23 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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For someone like me I know exactly how many girls/women I have been with.

Now for people who have had tons of sexual partners......
Do they actually have a number in their head, of exactly how many they have had.
I don't think you are going to get many people admitting they've had tons of sexual partners and how they keep count.

For most men, I'm sure they don't want to hear how many were before them and even 1 will be too many. So I don't think it's discussed much. That's why it's so important to take your sexual health very seriously.
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:28 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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What Chessie said!

Discussing and/or keeping numbers is a monumental waste of time and anybody overly interested in numbers needs to find another hobby.
I'd say!

You see, Dave, you're just too young and imperfect. Don't despair, though - time takes care of such problems! Some day you'll reach perfection, too!
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:31 AM
 
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I don't know what is considered "tons of partners", but I have definitely had my fair share and do not know the number. Not because of it being so high, but because the thought never crossed my mind to count.
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:32 AM
 
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I know a young woman who brags about how men she has had sex with but who knows if it is true. She has no problem telling anyone who will listen that she has had sex with over 300 men. Problem is once you get to know her, you find out she lies about everything.

I think some men will tell other men of their conquest but then again who knows if it is true.
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:35 AM
 
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I know a young woman who brags about how men she has had sex with but who knows if it is true. She has no problem telling anyone who will listen that she has had sex with over 300 men. Problem is once you get to know her, you find out she lies about everything.

I think some men will tell other men of their conquest but then again who knows if it is true.
Ok that is just disgusting. I was thinking somewhere aroud 40 or so for me, but that makes me feel like a virgin. haha
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Old 02-09-2010, 06:40 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Ok that is just disgusting. I was thinking somewhere aroud 40 or so for me, but that makes me feel like a virgin. haha
Life is young, Jays! Who knows what the calculations will be at your death bed. Not that you'd remember... That's when amnesia comes in handy! You can honestly preach to your grandkids - you know what, you pervs and slu*ts, your Grandma and I never touched anybody else, and look at you!
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