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JMB1990 · 02-09-2010, 02:31 PM

LOL thank you MAtheBanker.... I had to LOL alittle at your first post.

bobman · 02-09-2010, 02:33 PM

Thanks for the paragraphs.

makes it easier to read.

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Originally Posted by MAtheBanker

omg leave him

I agree with this. He sounds like he has issues. Go find yourself a good guy.

MAtheBanker · 02-09-2010, 02:34 PM

For the record, you'll never see me type "omg" EVER again. I had to force myself to type it. I may have even thrown up a little in my mouth, too.

mcb1025 · 02-09-2010, 02:37 PM

Leave him. He's a child stuck in a man's body. It sounds like you've reached a point in your life where you need a real man. Unfortunately, I'm in Denver

JustJulia · 02-09-2010, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by MAtheBanker

For the record, you'll never see me type "omg" EVER again. I had to force myself to type it. I may have even thrown up a little in my mouth, too.

^ Other than this time?

robee70 · 02-09-2010, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ChessieMom

Hit yourself a few times if you really can't see this.

Yes it's cheating, he's into sh*t that SCREAMS immaturity. And YES, you need to drop this dude and move ON, the quicker the better.

^^^^ That's all that needs to be said.

JMB1990 · 02-09-2010, 02:42 PM

ohh the joy you have brought me today MA, and LOL to MCB.
I've thought about it. I did leave the day I found out. Ended up comming back and it's been a struggle ever since. We live together, he helps me financially, I am close to my college. etc...

thriftylefty · 02-09-2010, 02:47 PM

Rat him out to the authorities, he may be already on their list of online pedophiles and some of the children in love with him may be cops.

mcb1025 · 02-09-2010, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by JMB1990

We live together, he helps me financially, I am close to my college. etc...

This sounds similar to the excuses given by women who live with abusive husbands (not saying you've been abused of course). It's just this pattern of justifying why something obviously bad is a good thing is not uncommon. Personally, I think you'd be much happier without him in your life.

teatime · 02-09-2010, 02:54 PM

OK, think about it. He met YOU online when you were 15 and he was 20, if I'm reading this right. And, apparently, he's still into picking up 15-year-olds on line. Sorry, but the guy has a problem. And if his problem leads to him having any sort of sex with these underage girls, and YOU had an idea of what was going on, he's headed for prison and you could be right behind him if you knew and didn't report him.

Get FAR away from this situation.