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Old 02-11-2010, 09:18 AM
 
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Old 02-11-2010, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Atlanta, GA
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So #6 and #7 are really true ladies? I never approach pretty women I just assume they are tired of being hit on or approached and they don't really care if the guy is nice or not, they just want left alone. Also do pretty women get sick of being complimented? I assume they do.
At the risk of sounding arrogant, I suppose men consider me 'beautiful' (I would never say this about myself, because a lot of times I honestly don't see it, but since this is the subject of the thread..), and I do not like to be hit on. Mostly because if I like the guy, he will know it. I usually make the first step. So if I'm not paying attention to the guy, I'm not interested.
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:27 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Oh, why do I have a feeling that no matter how "beautiful" this thread was supposed to be....it's going to turn ugly.
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:33 AM
 
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At the risk of sounding arrogant, I suppose men consider me 'beautiful' (I would never say this about myself, because a lot of times I honestly don't see it, but since this is the subject of the thread..), and I do not like to be hit on. Mostly because if I like the guy, he will know it. I usually make the first step. So if I'm not paying attention to the guy, I'm not interested.

Ahhhh yes but if you read multiple flirting threads or blogs about flirting some women don't know how to properly show interest in a man. So we can't presume to know if a woman is interested in us or not. We just pretty much have to go on the hunt for the women we are interested in. So I guess my next question would be, what if a guy does hit on you that you're not interested in...what do you do? Be honest now
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Atlanta, GA
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So I guess my next question would be, what if a guy does hit on you that you're not interested in...what do you do? Be honest now
This is probably going to sound horrible, but I'm being honest. I hate rejecting guys, so I usually say I'm taken .
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:38 AM
 
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Way too many guys are hung up on looks only. That's what most women are probably sick of. It's like a guy saying he's sick of being used for his wallet.

If all you can see in a woman is how beautiful she is, and that's all you care about; then you deserve every bit of rejection, loneliness and money loss you get.
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Amarillo, Tx
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Way too many guys are hung up on looks only. That's what most women are probably sick of. It's like a guy saying he's sick of being used for his wallet.

If all you can see in a woman is how beautiful she is, and that's all you care about; then you deserve every bit of rejection, loneliness and money loss you get.

I agree actually. But I have to be honest and say that this is something that I struggle with. Im the most non shallow person in the world. But when it comes to dating I get too picky with looks. I hate it. And Im not proud of it.

But Im being honest. I really wish I could get over it and just be happy.
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:48 AM
 
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This is probably going to sound horrible, but I'm being honest. I hate rejecting guys, so I usually say I'm taken .
That's not a bad strategy really as long as you don't do it in a mean way.
That's my only thing with pretty women if a guy approaches you in a nice, respectful way you shouldn't be a jerk to him. Remember men have to do all the work when it comes to this stuff so you owe us at least a "nice" rejection
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:52 AM
 
Location: North America
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At the risk of sounding arrogant, I suppose men consider me 'beautiful' (I would never say this about myself, because a lot of times I honestly don't see it, but since this is the subject of the thread..)
DM a pic of yourself and I'll let you know
 
Old 02-11-2010, 09:53 AM
 
Location: North America
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Oh, why do I have a feeling that no matter how "beautiful" this thread was supposed to be....it's going to turn ugly.
I was a little concerned, but you've come along to restore it's luster, so all is well now
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