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Oh no, I'm always nice, because I feel bad about rejecting them. I know how hard it is for guys to approach a girl. I am shy anyway, so I'll never be a you know who to a guy just because he is hitting on me.
The only thing I HATE is when guys pass by and give me a cocky 'Hiiiii' or 'Hey baby' or something dumb like that. Then I just pretend I'm deaf LOL or shake my head.
The cutest way I was approached a few days ago was by a guy I met at the airport. I was coming back from LA, feeling and looking tired from a 5 hour flight. This guy comes up to me and says 'I don't mean to bother you, but I just wanted to say you look absolutely gorgeous' and walked away. That was so cute, especially considering the fact that I didn't feel very pretty at that moment LOL.
This brought up something interesting from the past. I remember when i traveled as a consultant with male co-workers that finding a woman who looks tired or better yet in a bad mood was a good time to 'befriend' her with compliments or just a pleasant subject to divert her mood as the first step to conquest.
Whomever said beautiful woman had praise and approval their whole lives is sooooo off the mark.
I put up with nothing but rejection, passive aggression, and sexual harassment when I was beautiful....
Women who use this for a free pass are despised by other women. However, I've seen no evidence that such women care one whit what other women think. There is a married woman around here with two kids. Went to Paris on a "business trip" with one of her boy friends. A lot of clucking by the other women but management loves her and she was the only one I ever knew of who got a promotion without a competition.
Death threats, spat at, called every degrading name in the book by female family members...
You have a dysfunctional family, period!
I never knew I was beautiful.... Couldn't have felt any uglier than me.
So at 22 I started eating, and finally, once I was overweight people were nice to me.
Where do you live? This has got to be the weirdest place I've ever heard of! Some places in Africa still like overweight women but these are off the beaten track and haven't been influenced by satellite TV.
I can JUST now at 37 look back at pictures of me and realize I wasn't ugly like they told me.
I am loosing weight now, and terrified of that harsh treatment again....
Don't fool yourself, that pretty girl has probably been treated crappier than you will ever understand....
having a beautiful woman and a 50,000 dollar car are the same. only the car is lower maintenance.
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