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Old 02-12-2010, 10:57 AM
 
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Guys, would you like it if the woman told you where shed like to go or would it make you feel obligated , especially if its a place you possibly have no interest in. (He did ask where Id like to go)
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Old 02-12-2010, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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I prefer she tells me where she wants to go for dinner or whatever. As far as I'm concerned it's her day and my treat.
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Old 02-12-2010, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Marion, IN
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I prefer she tells me where she wants to go for dinner or whatever. As far as I'm concerned it's her day and my treat.
Yes, but you are a rare and wonderous person. Good to see you again!
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Old 02-12-2010, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Guys, would you like it if the woman told you where shed like to go or would it make you feel obligated , especially if its a place you possibly have no interest in. (He did ask where Id like to go)
Well, out of respect, I would choose a place where he likes to go as well, unless of course, you just wanna be ugly.
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:08 PM
 
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My hubby says he would much rather have me tell him b/c it saves him the trouble of trying to guess and getting it wrong. I agree with yankeegirl also choose a place you both enjoy.
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Old 02-12-2010, 01:12 PM
 
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It's a day of compromise - Valentine's Day.
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Old 02-12-2010, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Discuss it with him. He told me to pick but I asked him what sort of food he enjoys. When I go out to eat, I like to choose a cuisine that I don't make at home -- Indian, Mediterranean, Middle Eastern, etc. -- but I know that some people don't like different types of food. I always ask.
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Old 02-12-2010, 01:44 PM
 
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If only one of you likes the place you pick - you'll both end up having a miserable time.
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Old 02-12-2010, 01:54 PM
 
Location: California
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I need more details. I'm trying to imagine what kind of place my valentine would like to go that would be to offensive to me that I couldn't deal with it for a few hours...and I'm drawing a blank.
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Old 02-12-2010, 02:04 PM
 
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Take her where she wants to go.

Remember if she ain't happy, no one is happy.
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