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I won't get into all the things he said but they were becoming very inappropriate.
If I was a lady, I would have used that as a great excuse to mace someone. That would have pissed me off royally.
I remember one time at a checkout line the cashier kept trying to hook me up with her daughter. Refused to check me out until I gave her my number.
I have a really hard time being mean to people, but I finally had to put my foot down and said I was going to ask for her manager. She didn't try to hug my mellons though. =-) Oh yeah, it was a very sleezy grocery store, too. Go figure.
Usually when I am out I have a stern, focused look on my face and for some reason men tend think I'm mad. So, I have been working on trying to be more pleasant looking and smile when I make eye contact with someone. Well, that got me in all kinds of drama!!
I've got to see that smile.
What you should have done was kicked him in the b@lls. Obviously that is the number one remedy after a guy doesn't understand that you're married.
The guy seemed like was desperate. I don't brush my hair or get haircuts unless I need to impress someone. I also look evil when I am out in public. The last time I looked decent and smiled was the time a chick out of the blue asked me to give $20 so she could buy some food for a grown man she was shacking up with.
If I was a lady, I would have used that as a great excuse to mace someone. That would have pissed me off royally.
I remember one time at a checkout line the cashier kept trying to hook me up with her daughter. Refused to check me out until I gave her my number.
I have a really hard time being mean to people, but I finally had to put my foot down and said I was going to ask for her manager. She didn't try to hug my mellons though. =-) Oh yeah, it was a very sleezy grocery store, too. Go figure.
I have a hard time being mean to people too and try to give them the benefit of the doubt. I don't carry mace because I don't want to p*ss someone off and they REALLY go at me! That's why it really freaked me out because you never know how you are going to react to a given situation until you are in it. I was defenseless against his advances without causing a big scene or worse.....risking harm to me.
I have a hard time being mean to people too and try to give them the benefit of the doubt. I don't carry mace because I don't want to p*ss someone off and they REALLY go at me! That's why it really freaked me out because you never know how you are going to react to a given situation until you are in it. I was defenseless against his advances without causing a big scene or worse.....risking harm to me.
I can understand that. But trust me, after you do the below, coming after you will not even enter his mind.
If it happens again or if you see this guy again in that store, ask him politely to get you a nutcracker. He will willingly do that. Once you get it, make sure he's facing you and then grab his nuts with it and squeeze hard. It renders a guy useless.
What you should have done was kicked him in the b@lls. Obviously that is the number one remedy after a guy doesn't understand that you're married.
If she would have done that, she would have faced criminal charges for assualt and battery.
She would have been better off screaming for help and getting the attention of other people. If the guy tried assualted her, the she could kick him in the b@lls without being arrested.
Unfortunately it doesn't take much for some guys to feel "invited" to talk to an attractive woman because of a mere smile or hello. For some guys that's damn near a proposal.
It probably wasn't a good idea to walk to your car while he was still lurking. Now he knows what you drive and could have gotten your plate number. If he has friends that are cops he can find out all he wants to know. Not trying to scare you, but if that ever happens again, stall for time and wait for him to get into his car and drive off before you go to yours. Just pretend your making a phone call, or actually call someone. Careful where you aim that smile of yours next time.
Unfortunately it doesn't take much for some guys to feel "invited" to talk to an attractive woman because of a mere smile or hello. For some guys that's damn near a proposal.
It probably wasn't a good idea to walk to your car while he was still lurking. Now he knows what you drive and could have gotten your plate number. If he has friends that are cops he can find out all he wants to know. Not trying to scare you, but if that ever happens again, stall for time and wait for him to get into his car and drive off before you go to yours. Just pretend your making a phone call, or actually call someone. Careful where you aim that smile of yours next time.
See, that's what I mean. All logic left me when I got in that predicament. I KNOW better than to let someone follow me to my car but I just wanted to get away from him. You are right about the phone call, not letting him know where my car was.....I hate he made me so vulnerable and that I forgot my common sense!
Ok - that guy was - weird.
Still why would you allow your life to be altered in any way by one weird guy?
It's your life - live it well
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