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What would you do if you were madly in love with someone. You've been dating for quite some time now and you snooped around their computer and found that a few months ago (month & a half) they were on a dating website looking for someone else and even had pictures saved on their computer.
What would you do if you were madly in love with someone. You've been dating for quite some time now and you snooped around their computer and found that a few months ago (month & a half) they were on a dating website looking for someone else and even had pictures saved on their computer.
'Fess up that you snooped - apologize - then ask her to explain what you found.
Last edited by lovesMountains; 02-15-2010 at 08:08 PM..
What would you do if you were madly in love with someone. You've been dating for quite some time now and you snooped around their computer and found that a few months ago (month & a half) they were on a dating website looking for someone else and even had pictures saved on their computer.
Define "quite some time"! Is it more or less than month and a half?
'Fess up that you snooped - apologize - then ask him to explain what you found.
I did, some crying took place - "i love you" and the whole nine yards. Apparently the account was deleted shortly after and connections were sealed. I just don't know how to go on from it, I mean I am hurt and confused.
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Originally Posted by sierraAZ
Define "quite some time"! Is it more or less than month and a half?
If it was any amount of time since you've both acknowledged the relationship was exclusive, I'd say "See ya! And don't let the door hit you on the vagina on the way out!"
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Originally Posted by iAdam
It's a lot more haha, it has been 9 months now.
Oh yeah, dude. Screw that, and tell her to get lost. Don't let anyone walk all over you like that, especially a girlfriend.
Ummmm computer snooping is all the rage on here...Which makes me want to ask more questions!
Why are you computer snooping? You know I just have this theory people don't hardly do anything without reason! You left it out, and instead professed deep love. Deep love tends to include trust. Trusting people don't read mail(assuming) you read mail to find out, and followed links from mail. Then looked at saved pics, some serious snooping! Nothing on the Aim, or some such?
On fb I saw some weird friend adds, and something within me told me to look, so I went to the pictures and there I saw it. I found out about the dating website because she confessed to meeting them there.
If it was any amount of time since you've both acknowledged the relationship was exclusive, I'd say "See ya! And don't let the door hit you on the vagina on the way out!"
You summed it up quite nicely and spared me the typing!
I don't like snooping, but it's irrelevant in this case.
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