SINGLES only:-0 What are the TOP 5 things you want in your future mate???

[beowulf7]

Originally Posted by smarty

I like beowulf7's idea... with little modifications..
1.) Be educated and have a good enough job to fully support me.
2.) Be in very good physical shape and workout regularly, including not smoking. ie Has a good sex drive
3.) Willing cook and clean too... and let me be couch potatoes...
4.) Have a great personality who can click with any topic that may come up (probably most important trait).
5.) Have her girl's night out and allow me to have my boy's night out - weekly.

I was trying to mention realistic ideal traits. But if I just shoot for pure fantasy, then she'd be a 21-year-old supermodel who can fully support me and allow me to retire on her (both literally and figuratively ).

[HDL]

So basically you're looking for a Stepford wife with a JOB ! I'm not trying to be mean, but I'm just curious what you bring to the party and how that search is going ???? Or how Dr. Phil says it : How's that working for you beowulf7 ?

p.s.
I was watching the new Reality Show "The Millionaire Matchmaker" last week and there was a 46 year old man out on a date with a 25 year old and the date looked somewhat awkward as they seemed to have very little in common . The Matchmaker was trying to get this man to date someone closer to his age (like a gal in her 30's), but he kept saying that he was a 'young' 46 year old (i.e. therefore a trophy wife was in order - lol - my words, not his) !

What I remember most about this show was her saying that MEN want to 'order' a woman just like they do a new car and I thought, 'wowwee, how sad, but also very true !!!

Originally Posted by beowulf7

I was trying to mention realistic ideal traits. But if I just shoot for pure fantasy, then she'd be a 21-year-old supermodel who can fully support me and allow me to retire on her (both literally and figuratively ).

Originally Posted by beowulf7

I'll throw in my 5 cents, in random order. (I'm a guy.) I'd want my ideal woman to:
1.) Be educated and have a good enough job to fully support herself.
2.) Be in very good physical shape and workout regularly, including not smoking.
3.) Have no baggage (e.g. no children and prior marriages).
4.) Have a great personality who can click with any topic that may come up (probably most important trait).
5.) Have her girl's night out and allow me to have my boy's night out - weekly.

WTH, I'll throw in a bonus #6:
6.) Be 0-6 years younger than I.

[Fat Freddy]

Originally Posted by HDL

... but he kept saying that he was a 'young' 46 year old...therefore a trophy wife was in order...

Marriage is the only game in town where a loser can win a trophy.

[beowulf7]

Originally Posted by HDL

So basically you're looking for a Stepford wife with a JOB ! I'm not trying to be mean, but I'm just curious what you bring to the party and how that search is going ???? Or how Dr. Phil says it : How's that working for you beowulf7 ?

p.s.
I was watching the new Reality Show "The Millionaire Matchmaker" last week and there was a 46 year old man out on a date with a 25 year old and the date looked somewhat awkward as they seemed to have very little in common . The Matchmaker was trying to get this man to date someone closer to his age (like a gal in her 30's), but he kept saying that he was a 'young' 46 year old (i.e. therefore a trophy wife was in order - lol - my words, not his) !

What I remember most about this show was her saying that MEN want to 'order' a woman just like they do a new car and I thought, 'wowwee, how sad, but also very true !!!

I'm not familiar w/ that "Stepford Wives" movie nor the MM reality TV show.

I bring all 5 traits to the party. I'm not asking anything more than what I do not provide. OK, as for my #6, I'd be older, but that's usually the case (husband older than wife).