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Old 02-17-2010, 07:07 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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I think you just need to introduce him to another lover -- a blow-up doll he can make love to after the first 10 minutes.





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Old 12-01-2012, 12:35 AM
 
Location: United kingdom (near London)
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Pleasure your husband for a long time before intercourse , near to the point when he's nearly finished and then he won't be able to last an hour. Oral sex for 30 mins can help make sure your husband is still pleasured but at the same rate as you once the sex has started. By the time you've just started sex, he'll be ready to Finnish so win win.
 
Old 12-01-2012, 12:40 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Drink a fifth of Jack Daniels, no ice, straight out of the bottle and call me in the morning.
That would actually cause more soreness for a woman...
 
Old 12-01-2012, 01:56 AM
 
Location: Australia
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I've never liked being hammered away at for hours either, although nowdays I'm lucky if it's more than 5 minutes!

There has to be a happy medium, I think it's called viagra.

Anyway the way I would deal with this, would be to tell him to take care of it himself, keep the noise down while he does so, then go to sleep.

Men like OP's husband are the reason God invented porn.

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Old 12-01-2012, 02:28 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Hookup with any of the regular CD guys who struggle to get a date. You are bound to last longer!
 
Old 12-01-2012, 02:31 AM
 
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probably nothing OP. sexually compatibility isn't just mental, it is also physical (obviously)

the only thing i can think of is getting him to the point he wants to climax manually and letting him go for the gold for the last 10 minutes with you. eventually you will get the rhythm down as to when he should or shouldn't "go for it" so you can both enjoy you happy endings and not have to walk like your just got off your horse the rest of the day.
 
Old 12-01-2012, 03:19 AM
 
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First I hope I'm in the right place, if not this is really embarrassing!

I am a happily married women, but I don't last very long in bed. My husband could go at it for an hour or more, but I'm easily satisfied within the first 10 minutes, and if I go much more after that I get sore. Yes we have tried using several different lubes to help with that, not much luck and I still need at least 24 hours in between love making to "heal". Now we don't go at it all crazy and rough, but I'm a very small framed women (5' 3") and he is very well endowed. Lets just say the parts don't exactly fit and take some time to interlock, sort of speak. This is quite embarrassing so please bear with me. So overall, what can I do to make myself last longer rather then reach orgasm within the first few minutes.
You can help him achieve the 'o' by different means other than vaginally. I don't want to be too explicit on this forum. Talk with a sex counsellor.
 
Old 12-01-2012, 03:37 AM
 
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I'm pretty quick too but I've never been with someone who lasted long either. I wouldn't like that either. Sounds like the answer is to both speed him up and slow you down at the same time.
 
Old 12-01-2012, 03:39 AM
 
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Sounds like the answer is to both speed him up and slow you down at the same time.
so the answer is the matrix?
 
Old 12-01-2012, 03:41 AM
 
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so the answer is the matrix?
Well you could also just focus on one person but it would be more effective to do both.
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