never in love?

[samston]

Originally Posted by Megan19

In love once - never again.

Why? (if I may ask, that is)

[NotARedneck]

Originally Posted by victorianpunk

I have never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and never had sex. I have had female friends who were nice, but nothing more. I am always the "good friend" and never the "boyfriend".

This is because I am short, not good looking, and also the most boring person on the planet. Women just don't like me "that way". What can you do?

Many have posted that they've never found love and this hardly surprises me.

About 70% of men are basically unlovable by most women. Granted, you might find someone who is so far from having it together, that she would want to latch on to you. If you reciprocate or don't drive her off, she'll profess love but it is likely just something akin to the relief that she's found somebody/anybody.

Another 20% of men can find love if they are willing to settle in a big way. The real question for such men is: are they able to return the love? Few are. If they instead hold out for somebody who comes closer to meeting their dreams, they often wait for years to match up with a woman who is past her years of being able to attract the men she desires. Such women will, at best tolerate such men and often resent having to settle. A lot of these relationships are quite sad.

Love is mainly the domain of the 10% of men who attract younger women. They are usually instantly loved by them and in return, they also express love - for themselves. This doesn't matter because these women are willing to forgive them every transgression. Only when they have moved on to new opportunities, will these women come to their senses. Even then, they still love these men more than any average man who might then come along to give them more attention and support. This is the main reason that men have become so reluctant to marry women with children.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by NotARedneck

They are usually instantly loved by them and in return, they also express love - for themselves.

OK, you normally irritate me, but I'll give you this one! It's funny and true!

[NotARedneck]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

OK, you normally irritate me, but I'll give you this one! It's funny and true!

Happy to oblige.

There are guys who regularly thank me for my comments here but usually on other sites. I write for them since they desperately need another point of view. The MSM is so one sided.

They also have a sense of humor and are able to handle the frank expression of views that an anonymous site allows. No threads are started about anti men comments, although there is a better argument that these predominate here than the supposed anti woman comments.

Misandry is common whenever women discuss men's alleged shortcomings. I find that "nice guy" comments are particularly offensive and very inaccurate. I suppose that women know that these are the guys they won't find physically attractive, so the gloves come off.

Somehow, we don't understand women but they understand us!