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Old 02-21-2010, 09:19 PM
 
Location: At the Lake (in Texas)
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Yeah, and leave the young people alone. They don't need a lot of wrinkles in their lives yet.
Awww...poor young people...were we picking on you??? So sowwy we huwt your feewings...
Just making observations actually...your statement sounded full of youthful hopes and dreams, and that's all I meant to point out...I really hope you do have all your ... uh, wife and kids and mansions and money when you're 49...just remember it comes quickly...hope you achieve those dreams...
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Old 02-21-2010, 09:23 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Life takes strange twists and turns, you may have just marked yourself and be eating those words one day.

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I won't be an old dating, mantherous loser at 49.

Will be happily married, with kids, my mansions and my fat bank accounts LMAO.
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Old 02-21-2010, 09:26 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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There are some exceptional, and rare "old souls" out there who are really attracted to/ looking for older, more mature mates, without having ulterior motives.

Unfortunately, if they should get serious and marry, there will be inevitable trouble down the line! Things, such as: ED/impotence, alienation of peers (for both), loneliness due to alienation, differences in physical abilities, etc.

The most difficult problems comes down the line, once the elder becomes elderly, and the "youth" is still relatively young and vivacious.

Last edited by picklejuice; 02-21-2010 at 09:41 PM..
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Old 02-21-2010, 10:36 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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This is probably the reasons that 22 yr old Jamaican runway model was with me Sierra! She always said it was because I was hun.................orse(damn internet connection!) But I'm irish, we're not known for that.
I got the connection up! Because you were hunting whores!
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Old 02-21-2010, 10:38 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I got the connection up! Because you were hunting whores!
I'm sorry, I thought we we're known for our fine taste in spirits.
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Old 02-22-2010, 02:16 AM
 
Location: The Midst of Insanity
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For a myriad of reasons: smart, educated, witty, experienced, well traveled, well dressed, acts like a gentleman, provides romance, etc., etc. - all those things her peers fall short on.
This...

Some women just like older men. I always have. I've never dated a man younger than me-or even my age. They were always at least a decade older.

Why do some 49 year old men only like 19 year old girls???
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Old 02-22-2010, 02:18 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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For a myriad of reasons: smart, educated, witty, experienced, well traveled, well dressed, acts like a gentleman, provides romance, etc., etc. - all those things her peers fall short on.
Yep. I have always had a thing for older men. And those are the reasons.
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Old 02-22-2010, 02:30 AM
 
Location: Alabama
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So here's my question of the month:

Why would a 21 year old woman be attracted to a 49 year old man?

The only reason I can come up with is that the girl probably wants a "sugar daddy."

The girl is reasonably attractive, and has very suave and alluring mannerisms which she seems to know how to use all too well.

Each time that man communicates with her, she is overly kind and attentive, and makes direct eye contact with him each and every time. Instead of referring to the subject as "sir" she simply refers to him as "you" followed by subtle phrases which can get a man's mind going (e.g., "oh, I'm sure you can get creative with that." "Hotter is sometimes better.") All the time, she's making direct eye contact.

Ladies, gents...feel free!
I've ALWAYS been attracted to older men, they are more mature,kind,easy going, settled, know what they want, don't play games, mess around ETC. I always make direct eye contact when I'm speaking or when spoken to. The only times I usually use the greeting "sir" or "m'am" is to someone whom I do not know. I don't know what subtle phrases are that can get a mans mind going are..and I'm wondering where shes meeting massive amounts of men!
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Old 02-22-2010, 03:17 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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I could be stupid but never the cupid ! .. well this is what he does to sane people .. dang it ..i believe he might accidently let his arrow loose .. needs proper training u little nutwig .. what are u smiling at ? lolz .. geez that 49 yr old man would be on cloud nine .. cupid u silly lil curly haired prick lol ..he could die of a heart attack ! .. have u no mercy on us ..err him .. her whatever .. what did u say ..im jealous ..no im not ..im not ..nope ..nooooo ..im just just err ..okay im jealous so what huh huh ..huh ..argh gee this is what happenes when theres no work at office and i sit idle ..got nothing much to do ..am i talking to myself ..grr lolz ..i need aspirin !! ...*breath in-breath out* sigh lmao .. how was the drama ladies huh huh ? lolz
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Old 02-22-2010, 03:25 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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Okay Humphrey Bogart says ''Love is open to all''
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