Dreaming about the ex...

[TheBeagleLady]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Don't beat yourself up. It is natural to go through that. It's not pathetic.

Life is hard enough as it is without beating oneself around.

So, turn off the mental tape that you probably have playing in your head.

Yeah, it's no wonder I never get any quality sleep! My mind never shuts off.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by dogwalker425

Thanks!

I really think part of the problem is that I don't know the reason. I do know it was probably for the best and I deserve better, so that is helping.

I'm sure it is for the best...just like you weren't looking for him and wahla he showed. Stop dwelling on him and he may show up again...or you just need to let your written time-line for you, take it's course. We all have blue prints of our life...your guide will be there to help you continue your quest in life.

[STT Resident]

Think of the dreams as a subconscious cleansing routine as that's really what they are! They'll pass.

[TheBeagleLady]

Originally Posted by Raena77

I'm sure it is for the best...just like you weren't looking for him and wahla he showed. Stop dwelling on him and he may show up again...or you just need to let your written time-line for you, take it's course. We all have blue prints of our life...your guide will be there to help you continue your quest in life.

You know, I hadn't thought of it that way but that's a good way to look at it.

Originally Posted by STT Resident

Think of the dreams as a subconscious cleansing routine as that's really what they are! They'll pass.

True! I've noticed they've gotten less upsetting, and not exactly flattering to him. LOL Guess it's my mind's way of telling me to move on.