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I was having a conversation with my bf and out of nowhere he said something odd. He said, "I really like to be chased". So, I'm game! I say in a really smarmy way, "Oh, that's how you like it....ummm." But I think I got too excited. He said, "Oh, I'm just kidding!"
Do guys really like that? I'm all for taking CONTROL but I'd hate to be wrong. He's a sensitive soul.
I was having a conversation with my bf and out of nowhere he said something odd. He said, "I really like to be chased". So, I'm game! I say in a really smarmy way, "Oh, that's how you like it....ummm." But I think I got too excited. He said, "Oh, I'm just kidding!"
Do guys really like that? I'm all for taking CONTROL but I'd hate to be wrong. He's a sensitive soul.
Tricky.
My take is that being chased and having the woman take control are two very separate things. Once the chase is over, I'd want the control back. But that's just me...I think most guys, unless they're really insecure, enjoy the occasional role-reversal.
I was having a conversation with my bf and out of nowhere he said something odd. He said, "I really like to be chased". So, I'm game! I say in a really smarmy way, "Oh, that's how you like it....ummm." But I think I got too excited. He said, "Oh, I'm just kidding!"
Do guys really like that? I'm all for taking CONTROL but I'd hate to be wrong. He's a sensitive soul.
It's not something that is spesific for a gender, but it might be more normal or open in males. Most of the time one is the dominant, and the other is the more laid back submissive one in the relationship. But there is nothing wrong with changing the roles, and it might make it even more interesting and fun. The best way is to just ask, or if you can't get through him with that try to be a little bit more forward next time. Try to take control with certain things, not too much to scare him of but enough for him to notice that you're in control. Then you will see if he likes it or not, it's that simple. Though it might change with time, and mood. I would like to say that no one is dominant all of the time. Good luck with the chase, you should really try it!
You can still be assertive without emasculatiing him. Be the first to initiate sex from time to time (if you don't already), place his hand where you want it, send him a random text or email out of the blue telling him how sexy he is, or how much you love his______ ...you fill in the blank. It's the little gestures that can go a long way as well as the big obvious ones.
You can still be assertive without emasculatiing him. Be the first to initiate sex from time to time (if you don't already), place his hand where you want it, send him a random text or email out of the blue telling him how sexy he is, or how much you love his______ ...you fill in the blank. It's the little gestures that can go a long way as well as the big obvious ones.
Arms. How much you love my sexy arms.
I'll rep you either way, but if you are a chick you got it down.
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Do guys really like that? I'm all for taking CONTROL but I'd hate to be wrong. He's a sensitive soul. 
that's a big turn on for sure 
It's the little gestures that can go a long way as well as the big obvious ones.
