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I think it's important not to wait too long for that first kiss for a few reasons - to establish and confirm that there is a mutual physical attraction and to establish your intentions that you want to be more than just friends.
I'd say that if a woman is truly interested in a relationship with you and is attracted to you she will most definitely let you kiss her by at most the 3rd date. 3 dates is plenty in my opinion to guage if you want to move forward with someone. If you can't establish this by then chances are that it's never going to happen. Dating is hard enough and expensive, why waste your time with someone who is not compatible with you?
By the 3rd date if she refuses to kiss you (for example gives you the cheek) then it is definitely not worth investing more time in it.
I say go for the kiss a lot sooner. I mean at the end of the date for sure plant one if things have gone well. If it is a long date and things r really clinking then surprise with a nice kiss if the kiss is returned step up the intensity- this does not have to wait until the end of the date. If u don't bust a move until the 3rd date, u r wasting everyone's time.
I agree not to wait too long. The difficult part though, is how to know if things are going well and she really wants to be kissed. Otherwise, she may dodge your kiss like a cobra... And I've seen some of these happen to various people.
I say go for the kiss a lot sooner. I mean at the end of the date for sure plant one if things have gone well. If it is a long date and things r really clinking then surprise with a nice kiss if the kiss is returned step up the intensity- this does not have to wait until the end of the date. If u don't bust a move until the 3rd date, u r wasting everyone's time.
I agree.. No sense waiting till the end. I was surprised by one. It was the night before my birthday and we went out to eat and then went to see some music at a classy bar. We were just standing there watching the show and she asked me "What time is it?" I looked at my phone and said 12:15 and she said "well Happy Birthday then!" and leaned towards me and it happened. I'll never forget that. The weird thing was the same person flaked on me a week later. Weird.
I think it's important not to wait too long for that first kiss for a few reasons - to establish and confirm that there is a mutual physical attraction and to establish your intentions that you want to be more than just friends.
I'd say that if a woman is truly interested in a relationship with you and is attracted to you she will most definitely let you kiss her by at most the 3rd date. 3 dates is plenty in my opinion to guage if you want to move forward with someone. If you can't establish this by then chances are that it's never going to happen. Dating is hard enough and expensive, why waste your time with someone who is not compatible with you?
By the 3rd date if she refuses to kiss you (for example gives you the cheek) then it is definitely not worth investing more time in it.
Anyone disagree with this synopsis?
I think two people can determine if they find each other attractive without snogging.
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