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Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate
Hah, betcha thought I was referring to the mental.
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That's what I thought when I first saw your thread in the morning, PTC, and I said to myself - who do you think you are, lady?!
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Originally Posted by moonshadow
Generally I'm like a dog that crawls up under the house and stays there until I'm better. I don't want people looking at me or around me particularly. I do accept and appreciate help from a very small circle of family or friends but I don't want them fussing too much. I also find it incredibly difficult to ask for help, to the point that I rarely do and even then it's only ever if I can't do something myself.
Occasionally I like tea and sympathy and comfort but it's pretty rare for me to overide my mangy dog tendencies long enough to appreciate or ask for it.
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I'm the same way. I don't really have any sources of help I can be comfortable with, but generally asking for help doesn't come easy to me, either. Not because I feel I don't deserve it or I think I'll be turned down; I just don't feel like asking people who are not that close to me.