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Old 03-04-2010, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Unfortunately, many of the sex crazed women I am attracted to fit this type.
Maybe you just answered your own question, dear!
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Old 03-04-2010, 08:38 PM
 
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I did and know that I don't fall short in that department. OMG, well that is um nice!LMAO.......... I told you!
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Old 03-04-2010, 09:44 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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No, but most of the women I have dated have. They were of the cheating type and I think I have just tuned my cheater radar even more recently. I can really spot them now. Get lost cheater women that play games.
According to some people on CD, you're lying. Congrats though.

Confound those cheater women peoples.
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Old 03-04-2010, 09:51 PM
 
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Can you remember the excitement you enjoyed back when you and your mate first started dating? That is one of the 'joys' (if you want to call it that) or highs that a cheater gets when he starts a new relationship, excitement, daring, maybe even danger. I don't know that we can name any one thing that makes cheaters cheat. Sometimes it's is just the oppurtunity was opened and they choose not to walk away, whe they should have.
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Old 03-04-2010, 10:16 PM
 
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Do men such as Tiger Woods ever grow up? Is sex addiction just a cop out for lack of character?

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You know, being around a few guys who I knew were going after anything that walked, one of the common outlooks was the fact that they wanted to experience the maximum amount of pleasure that they could in their lifetime.

Why guys like that get married? I don't know.
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Old 03-04-2010, 10:20 PM
 
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Excessive exercise is also an addiction as any other. Some view sex as sport - here we go! I believe the chemicals released are about the same.

You're right Sierra. After years of hard exercise, your body does crave it. For example, if I don't exercise (at all) for 3 weeks, my mood starts to change and my body starts to ache as if something is wrong.
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Old 03-04-2010, 10:22 PM
 
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I don't buy the whole sexual addiction thing Tiger Woods is claiming. I think he's just a creepy married guy who got caught screwing around and doesn't want his wife to divorce him and get half of his assets.
I completely agree.
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Old 03-04-2010, 10:24 PM
 
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I can spot these types on men also. I worked with guys who would always go to the massage parlor after work for a happy ending. They were married and some even got busted when they raided the place. They would go out to lunch with the new young secretaries and flirt with the waitress and rub her arms and back. Also telling sexual jokes with nasty innuendos. You are married guys. What would your wife say? How could you not tell they were cheater types ladies? Some even were caught red handed 3 or more times and forgiven? WTH!
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Old 03-04-2010, 10:24 PM
 
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I see addiction as being addicted to a substance. Can we become addicted to the chemicals that are released during sex?.
Well, it seems to me that humans come pre addicted to:

Water
Food
Sex
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Old 03-04-2010, 10:47 PM
 
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Human nature has deevolved since the focus has been on the rules of law...we would not have serial cheaters if man and women would be allowed to follow the natural law of multiple partners. Polygamy is natural law....monogamy is civilized law...I chose natural law anytime...over the law of man. aho

You have a point, because, when I read between the lines, many men feel the need to be in the company of multiple women (because one woman can't do it all), and many women don't seem to be bothered (to the point of leaving) that she needs to share her man/lover, so as long as he takes care of her, and her needs. Yea, I know many people today may not like this but we are looking at the situation through 21st century eyes.

However, as far as the devolution of human nature, I feel the problem started when the parts of the world went off the matriarchal system and transferred to a patriarchal system; don't quote me but this happened somewhere around 1000 BCE-100 AD.
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