gym girl (how to, single, attractive, college)

[Rakin]

I would pretend it didn't happen and give it another shot. Guys sometimes do stupid stuff maybe she will see it as that.

If she brings it up just compliment her on the fact that when your attracted to a woman you tend to go brain dead. All us guys do that with some women.

[CESpeed]

Originally Posted by cloot310

thanks for the feedback ppl.

as far as the racist thing, I was more trying to make a point that we have something glaringly obvious in common. thats all.

I am fairly certain that she didn't like the way our conversation ended. Assuming this is the case, how do you go about approaching a girl who's feelings have just bee hurt via perceived rejection or a lack of interest on my part?

Thanks

You apologize, explain what happened and see if she accepts what you say. If she does, invite for a smoothie, if not, next!

[max's mama]

Originally Posted by cloot310

thanks for the feedback ppl.

as far as the racist thing, I was more trying to make a point that we have something glaringly obvious in common. thats all.

I am fairly certain that she didn't like the way our conversation ended. Assuming this is the case, how do you go about approaching a girl who's feelings have just bee hurt via perceived rejection or a lack of interest on my part?

Thanks

I can only speak for myself, but if I was in this girl's shoes, I would want you to come up to me and say: "I think you are totally hot and I'm attracted to you. I've been checking you out for years and I want to ask you out. Do you wanna go out sometimes?".
That's it. I can't stand wishy-washy men. Just ask her out already and call it a day. If she says "yes", great. If she says "no", well, at least you will know where you stand.

[CESpeed]

Originally Posted by JordanJP

Your postcount and perceived seniority didn't stop you from getting all in a huff about something minor.

I've met people who troll that have lots of postcount and rep on other forums, it only goes so far before it stops meaning anything.


Anyways..

Originally Posted by Llewelyn

Seeing as you just grossly misinterpreted the OP's intentions and resorted to slander, I think an apology would be in order.

, period.

[WyoNewk]

Just ask for a start-over. Explain how her stunning beauty makes you nervous. It's the truth, right? Be honest.

[Rakin]

MM above is 100% sexy female who gives good advice. That's the best advice offered above so take it from a lady and move forward with confidence.

[cloot310]

yeah the proper thing to do here is to talk to her, feel her out (no pun intended), and if she seems less happy than she was before, I guess I should apologize for ending the convo without any closure.

I have had a female friend tell me she thinks explaining to her that I was nervous makes me look weak and I should not do it. Still unsure if I'll go this far.

[JordanJP]

Explaining that you were a bit nervous is hit-or-miss with young women.
Either they think it's cute or they think you're a loser. Tough call.

I stand by my earlier advice, though. Like the Nike slogan.. Just Do It.

[Nite Ryder]

You sound like you might be into yourself, and she sounds the same. Usually two people that think they are such hot sh--, don't get along that well. I'd look else where if I were you, I don't care for people that are stuck on themselves...

[JordanJP]

Who said it had to be a relationship, though? What if it's for casual fun? In that case, two people who are into themselves could have a lot of fun for a few hours every once in a while.

Anyways, that's assuming the OP and this female are like that. lol.