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Yes, I've seen a guy and the hormones sat up and went, "Yum!" very loudly. However, I never acted on that impulse.
Women in general don't do enough screening before they accept a man into their lives. I've been guilty of this myself a number of times.
I'm not sure that communication is always the key. I had a boyfriend once who would willingly spend hours arguing with me! Sure, we were communicating, but it was exhausting. Often, it never solved anything. After a while, there were just certain subjects we would never discuss. Not the greatest solution, but it was better than going around in circles constantly.
Twinkle Toes, Your my kind of gal!!!!!!!!!! lol
Why guess and waste time when you can tell it like it is. As a man, Girls, If you know what you want, It's our pleasure to give it to you and then some. after all sometimes we ( men ) can be soooo close, but, sooo far away.....Not to menchin, It's a WOMAN that makes us a better man! Let's Dance!!!!! :-) Woodz
Twinkle Toes, Your my kind of gal!!!!!!!!!! lol
Why guess and waste time when you can tell it like it is. As a man, Girls, If you know what you want, It's our pleasure to give it to you and then some. after all sometimes we ( men ) can be soooo close, but, sooo far away.....Not to menchin, It's a WOMAN that makes us a better man! Let's Dance!!!!! :-) Woodz
I know men have but have women ever seen a man that you just wanna take home and just have sex with? (Kinda the same way guys do.....)
Love to look but never touch
Many times I've seen where couples break up because "the boyfriend" isn't what she expected him to be. So, what is it that you as women really expect from a guy?
sometimes it depends on your age and where you are in life. These things have always been consistent 1) respect 2) consideration 3) to be the only one 4) great listener and communicator 5) shared goals 6) shared interests 7) educated 8) a gentleman etc.
I agree with EdieGirl I think she hit it dead on. I have to tell you about a guy that works with us who is trying to figure it out. We work in a doctors office there are 12 girls here. Let me tell you about "the guy" or Dr. he is a nice guy, but let me tell what he says or does that is such a turn off that there isn't one girl that we know that will date him. First when he meets a girl he will start to make her things like, jewelery boxes, or carve a poem in glass for her. Yes, I know that sounds romantic, but get to know her first don't overwhelm her, and don't brag that you do exotic wood working (it sounds like your gay), don't call the cops because someone bumped your car and only you can tell, or some old lady cuts you off and gives you the finger (you really look like a wimp). If your in a dangerous situation then call the police. Believe me all 12 of us girls agree, don't smother us let us get to know you, and please don't act like a wimp. It is a big turn off when we feel like we could "take you down." I hope this will help, I know this sounds mean but it is the Real Truth at least from all 12 girls here.
I feel it for the poor guy.......I bet he's sitting at home wondering why women ain't showering him with love. WHat I think though is that you or a few of the females should take him out to lunch and chat with him. Let him know these things that you see and maybe he can have some better luck.
I'm not sure that communication is always the key. I had a boyfriend once who would willingly spend hours arguing with me! Sure, we were communicating, but it was exhausting. Often, it never solved anything. After a while, there were just certain subjects we would never discuss. Not the greatest solution, but it was better than going around in circles constantly.
Just sharing my teenage knowledge......
Communication is more than just talking, exchanging words. It also includes coming to an understanding or an agreement among other things. Getting a message or a point across, that's the main idea of communication. Yes, arguments can be exhausting, but even during an argument, if you listen to what the next person is saying or in some cases yelling, you'll gain an understanding of there position and then effectively make a decision.
Now I know some people might say "But I do listen.....", but you need to take in consideration that hearing and registering the information is totally different from just hearing it......
I know men have but have women ever seen a man that you just wanna take home and just have sex with? (Kinda the same way guys do.....)
Love to look but never touch
Many times I've seen where couples break up because "the boyfriend" isn't what she expected him to be. So, what is it that you as women really expect from a guy?
sometimes it depends on your age and where you are in life. These things have always been consistent 1) respect 2) consideration 3) to be the only one 4) great listener and communicator 5) shared goals 6) shared interests 7) educated 8) a gentleman etc.
I think you're right about almost except one......to be the only one.......
Women need to realise that men operate visually. They go after the pretty things. So look at it......if you're a woman who dresses low key all the time then he's gonna look away. You have to hold his attention in vice-grip, so that when he sees some other chick and his homeboys go: "damn that's fiiiiine"..... he'll go......**** I got that at home already dawg!
Keep it hot nack home so he has no reason whatsoever to go outside unless there's something he wants you to do and you don't get down like that.....
Feel me???
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