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Old 03-22-2010, 09:27 PM
 
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haha, don't beat yourself up. I also need physical affection and have accidentally gotten myself in these situations even though I know its not right for me. Lack of sex for a while will do that to us young women, lol. just chalk it up to an experience and enjoy yourself again!
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:28 PM
 
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I know!!! So what do I do to smarten up???

What are the ground rules these days???
Write men off for a few years and focus on yourself...do some traveling, finish or go back to school.
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:29 PM
 
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No, you're not mental, just easy. jk. You did the right thing by ending it before you developed feelings. Now keep it in your pants if you can't separate the physical from emotional. Booty calls aren't for everyone.
yeah, I guess your right.... I just turn into some sex addict so I will have to go cold turkey again until I am ready for another relationship, I guess...... Lol...
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:29 PM
 
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Don't listen to her. Without one nighters, some of us with commitment issues would never get laid.
Oh shut up...you get laid all the time...you are hot.
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:30 PM
 
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Oh shut up...you get laid all the time...you are hot.
Actually I've been very behaved recently. And that still doesn't change the fact that without ladies willing to offer up a one nighter, some of us would be flying solo. Or should I say tugging solo.
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:32 PM
 
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yeah, I guess your right.... I just turn into some sex addict so I will have to go cold turkey again until I am ready for another relationship, I guess...... Lol...
You can indulge in sex and it can be very enjoyable, but only if you're able to separate the emotional from physical. If not, you are "that girl". Nobody wants to be her.
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:32 PM
 
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Actually I've been very behaved recently. And that still doesn't change the fact that without ladies willing to offer up a one nighter, some of us would be flying solo. Or should I say tugging solo.
Watch out for those one-nighters...can be very dangerous.
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:33 PM
 
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Good for you that you are behaved...hell me too.
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:34 PM
 
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You are mis-diagnosing yourself. You're not "neurotic", but rather, merely "co-dependant." Google the symptoms of co-dependancy and see if they sound familar. Maybe check out a CODA meeting.
lol....actually I am the complete opposite, but just hadnt done the deed for so long I just wanted to go a little overboard and use the poor guy for it.... I know for sure now cold turkey is the way for me for a MAJOR reason......lol
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Old 03-22-2010, 09:41 PM
 
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Have some restraint girl, gawd go buy a dolphin...get it outa your system. lol
lmao..... Ok, whats a dolphin?
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