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Old 03-23-2010, 10:46 AM
 
Location: Some where North of South Jersey
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One of my girlfriends from years ago wanted badly to get married, but I didn't (Still don't) so I asked her if we get married I WANT ONE THING just like she wanted one thing. Her's was to get married, mine was to have a GF too. I would get married to her and have a GF, but she said no and so did I! She stuck around for many years after but she was free to leave. Finally I had to tell her she's wasting her time here. It's NEVER going to happen, and slowly she left. MAN THAT SEEMED LIKE IT TOOK FOREVER!!
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Old 03-23-2010, 10:49 AM
 
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Well, good for her to leave. Deserves better.
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Old 03-23-2010, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Some where North of South Jersey
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A. No she don't she was not something any normal man would want.
B. She married a drunk, so she DIDN'T do better.
C. She was ALWAYS ALWAYS depressed, no matter what was going on around her nothing made her happy.

If you only knew the reasons for not wanting to marry her you would understand. She said she would be happy if she got married and had a baby, I can understand not being happy to a looser, but she's NOT happy with having a baby? HMmmm someone has issues.
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Old 03-23-2010, 11:07 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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This is a fantastic story.
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Old 03-23-2010, 11:09 AM
 
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This is a fantastic story.
lol - "and my second language is sarcasm"
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Old 03-23-2010, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Minneapolis
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A heartwarming read indeed. *note Jay's second language comment
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Old 03-23-2010, 11:18 AM
 
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Why are people so judgmental? If that's the life you choose, so be it. Happy or not, that's your choice. I would be judgmental if someone were forced to do something.

So what if the girl wants to marry someone who has many other girlfriends? That's her choice. It may not be your choice, but you should be happy for her as she choose how to live her life and be happy.
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Old 03-23-2010, 11:22 AM
 
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Why are people so judgmental? If that's the life you choose, so be it. Happy or not, that's your choice. I would be judgmental if someone were forced to do something.
See first sentence.

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So what if the girl wants to marry someone who has many other girlfriends?
Where did it say that?
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Old 03-23-2010, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Well, it seems to work out OK for many men in Italy, Spain, and other "hot-blooded" countries. Just curious -- what would you have done if she agreed to your stipulation? Could you "bring it?"


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Old 03-23-2010, 11:59 AM
 
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If she is not something a normal man would want, depressed, and has issues yet you kept her around forever and would have married her anyway if you could also have a girlfriend on the side, but she finially left you for a drunk, ...Can you say Jerry Springer?
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