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Oh, I make sure she feels like I need her too! Believe me!
Who else is going to cook and clean for me? Also, I have always let the woman I'm with handle all my personal business. She probably doesn't have time to handle all that AND have a job too.
Oh, I make sure she feels like I need her too! Believe me!
Who else is going to cook and clean for me? Also, I have always let the woman I'm with handle all my personal business. She probably doesn't have time to handle all that AND have a job too.
Yeah my mother had to handle my dad's bills. Dad was smart just lazy.
If he saw you as needy, shouldn't he be offering to pay your way? Instead of you having to do so? I don't mind a needy woman, makes me feel "useful".
If you don't "need" me for anything, why should you want me? So if you're independent and "don't need me", then what's the point?
I just feel that if an older guy wants to have anything to do with me...plus he has a girlfriend 'back home', then he needs to hook me up with something. And Im not just talking about dinner and a movie.
Why, you ask. Because, If Im going to be the 'girl in the other fort', then I need compensation. They basically want an 'escort' to give them sex and have as arm candy to dates and such. Thats fine, but dont expect me to do all of that just because you toss me a dinner and some cheap ass drinks! And then, later on at the bar they are all kissed and hugged on some other girl. N-n-noooo!
I introduce that guy to a girl the last time we hung out at a bar. Next thing I know, they are making out in the corner That right there was enough to kick his ASS to the Muh Fuh... curb!
I just feel that if an older guy wants to have anything to do with me...plus he has a girlfriend 'back home', then he needs to hook me up with something. And Im not just talking about dinner and a movie.
Why, you ask. Because, If Im going to be the 'girl in the other fort', then I need compensation. They basically want an 'escort' to give them sex and have as arm candy to dates and such. Thats fine, but dont expect me to do all of that just because you toss me a dinner and some cheap ass drinks! And then, later on at the bar they are all kissed and hugged on some other girl. N-n-noooo!
I introduce that guy to a girl the last time we hung out at a bar. Next thing I know, they are making out in the corner That right there was enough to kick his ASS to the Muh Fuh... curb!
You will only get a gentleman if you act like a lady. Unfortunately, not many women act like true ladies and then they have the cheek to demand a gentleman. That is the crux of the matter. I seen countless of women who are nothing but filthy cruel *******, and yet they cry foul when they attract someone who is like them, and start whining about "OMGZ Where all da gentlemen, I hate men wah wah wah...."
You will only get a gentleman if you act like a lady. Unfortunately, not many women act like true ladies and then they have the cheek to demand a gentleman. That is the crux of the matter. I seen countless of women who are nothing but filthy cruel *******, and yet they cry foul when they attract someone who is like them, and start whining about "OMGZ Where all da gentlemen, I hate men wah wah wah...."
Sooooo....he has an unemployed GF back home huh? Niiice!
My advice? Move on. Find someone who is single!
She wouldn't be on here if that's what she wants to do.
Like many women posting on here, she wants her problem solved.
Her problem is: How does she get him to kick this other woman out so she doesn't have to pay for a hotel?
Desirable looking men who are jerks are easy to deal with - you leave them. Unfortunately many women are worried that they will be stuck with undesirable looking men who aren't jerks.
Unless you are Redisca, of course. She knows that 98% of undesirable looking men are jerks. She did the legal research on this. It makes it so much easier on her conscience when she skins them in divorce court.
As much as I like TLC, I'm not really into the male bashing thing they had going on.
I know my thread may 'seem' like male bashing, but its really about older guys with money who use that to attract needy younger women. And the second that girl stands up for herself, he goes and shuts her out and moves on to the next easy target.
I just feel that if an older guy wants to have anything to do with me...plus he has a girlfriend 'back home', then he needs to hook me up with something. And Im not just talking about dinner and a movie.
Why, you ask. Because, If Im going to be the 'girl in the other fort', then I need compensation.
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That right there was enough to kick his ASS to the Muh Fuh... curb!
Niiice! 
