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Old 03-30-2010, 11:41 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Recently started seeing someone who is recently divorced. Xwife was the one who wanted the divorce. Now that she's learned her x is seeing me the **** has hit the fan...I don't take it personally, as he could be seeing anyone IMO and this could happen.

Thoughts?

My personal opinion, when dating don't go near a recently divorced person with a 10 foot pole - too much baggage and emotional instability.
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Old 03-31-2010, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Apparently, I should date myself. I know my own baggage, which is pretty light at the moment, I like the way I talk, walk & dress. I can afford to pay for taking my own self out for dinner, movies, events. I'm always doing fun things; who needs anyone else?
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Old 03-31-2010, 08:53 AM
 
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It is a great idea to wait. The idea of a rebound is no good.
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Old 03-31-2010, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Personally, I'm beginning to think all relationships have the possibility to be rebounds.
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Old 03-31-2010, 09:11 AM
 
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Recently started seeing someone who is recently divorced. Xwife was the one who wanted the divorce. Now that she's learned her x is seeing me the **** has hit the fan...I don't take it personally, as he could be seeing anyone IMO and this could happen.

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Not sure what exactly is "hitting the fan" so hard to gauge the situation.

She might be nutty, or he might be lying about what really happened in their relationship.
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Old 03-31-2010, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Default Re: Dating myself...

I forgot to add: I have a job, live in a very nice section of town, a paid off vehicle & no sexual diseases; there's no one better than me to date me.
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Old 03-31-2010, 11:02 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Not sure what exactly is "hitting the fan" so hard to gauge the situation.

She might be nutty, or he might be lying about what really happened in their relationship.
Apparently calling in the early hours of the a.m. crying & screaming. I'm thinking if that didn't happen pre-divorce, it's a given. Daytime issues the same... I recall crying & screaming when my husband wasn't home but at his girlfriend's & then hating him when he was home. I've been there so I can relate. Maybe he's just testing me? Who knows...time will tell. After the last ten years of my life (divorce, crack addict boyfriend for almost 8 years, bankruptcy, money up in smoke, custody issues due to boyfriend, etc...), not too much can surprise me at this point of my life.
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Old 03-31-2010, 11:06 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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My DH was recently divorced when we started dating. Hey, at least he wasn't married!

I was not the first woman he dated either, I think I was the fourth. And he was only married for 2 years to that wife, idk if that makes a difference.
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Old 03-31-2010, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Well, I'm wasn't exactly looking to get married again, I'm not looking to have more children (have two already) I just thought it would be nice to date someone that doesn't spend my money or smoke crack or snort oxys, has their own home, car, job...maybe that's too much to ask? lol....
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Old 03-31-2010, 11:56 AM
 
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I'm gonna start dating the same day my divorce is finalized.

I was dating six weeks into my separation, and my wasband was dating a month after that, and we were both okay with that.

It really depends on the situation. My divorce had no rancor.
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