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Old 04-24-2013, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted by atcmk213 View Post
I've been away from my marriage for 3 years before I started dating...Dated about 6 men in 4 months before I met this man who was divorced only 4 months before we met. We immediately hit it off when we started talking, and had the best first date I ever had. We have been seeing each other for 5 weeks now. He tells me he has to take things slow because he also has 2 children. He went to church on christmas with his kids and x and they are going out for pizza with the kids too on new years eve before he heads out to a party with his friends. We connect so well when we are together, everything we do together is completely comfortable. He has told me his feelings about me and is pretty open when we are together about how he feels too. The ex and none of his family know he is dating yet and only a few friends...Is this a red flag. I really enjoy spending time with him and have not connected with someone the way we do ever...not even my x. I am trying not to give him my heart, but everytime I see him I can't help but get closer to falling in love with him.

I know it's only been 5 weeks...am I not seeing something or am I trying to move too fast? He told me he never thought he would like someone so much this soon. But he hasn't even told family he is dating and only a few close friends that we are seeing one another. Any advice?
The dust has not even settled in his life yet. Plus his kids are a priority right now.

Hang in there and be a solid support for him. He will appreciate it immensely.
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Old 04-24-2013, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Ladywithafan View Post
Such an old thread! No worries!

How did it all turn out????
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